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15 Signs You’re Dating a Stingy Boyfriend

15 Signs You're Dating a Stingy Boyfriend

When you’re in a relationship, it’s important to have an open and honest dialogue about money. While it’s common for couples to have different spending habits and financial goals, there’s a difference between being broke and being stingy. A stingy boyfriend can put a significant strain on the relationship and cause feelings of resentment and frustration. 

Here are the signs that your boyfriend may be stingy:

1. REFUSES TO SPLIT BILLS EQUALLY.

A stingy boyfriend may avoid splitting bills equally or suggest that you pay for more expenses than him. While it’s understandable that everyone has different financial situations, a stingy partner may always try to pay the minimum amount possible, even when it comes to basic expenses like groceries and utilities. 

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2. ALWAYS LOOKING FOR FREEBIES.

If your partner is always looking for freebies and discounts, it may be a sign that they are stingy. While it’s good to save money where you can, it’s also important to understand the value of quality and investing in experiences. A stingy boyfriend will always expect freebies from you and other people around him. They’re always in need of help, but they never volunteer to help anyone.

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3. REFUSES TO GIVE GIFTS.

A stingy boyfriend may not see the value in giving gifts or may only give small, inexpensive gifts. While the cost of a gift doesn’t determine its value, a stingy partner may not put much thought into what they give you, or they may not give gifts at all.

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4. CONSTANTLY COMPLAINS ABOUT MONEY.

If your partner is always complaining about money, it can be exhausting and stressful. A stingy boyfriend may make you feel guilty for spending money on things that are important to you, or they may constantly talk about how much things cost. They always complain about not having money, even when you don’t ask them. When you call him today, he will tell you how broke he is; tomorrow, the same story. You will keep wondering if life has been unfair to them, given how constantly they complain.

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5. HE BRAGS ABOUT “I CAN’T SPEND MONEY ON WOMEN”

If your boyfriend always brags about his inability to spend money on his woman, this is a red flag that indicates he’s stingy. They will be like, “I can never spend on a girl.” They will criticize other men for spending on their women and call them simp.

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6. AVOIDS GOING OUT TO EAT.

Eating out is a common way to spend time with your partner, but a stingy boyfriend may avoid going out to eat or suggest that you only order water or the cheapest items on the menu. While it’s important to be mindful of your budget, a stingy partner may make you feel embarrassed or ashamed for wanting to enjoy a meal out.  They always prefer the local restaurant “Mama Put” because, to them, a lady who genuinely loves you sees it as a waste of money to take her to Mr. Biggs or Shoprite.

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7. ALWAYS TALKS ABOUT SAVING MONEY.

While saving money is important, a stingy boyfriend may take it to the extreme and constantly talk about how much money they are saving or brag about the amount of money in their bank account. This behavior can be exhausting and make you feel like you can’t enjoy things that you value. If you order 20k human hair, he will complain it’s too expensive and you should save instead. 

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8. REFUSES TO INVEST IN THE RELATIONSHIP.

If your partner is stingy, they may be reluctant to invest in the relationship in ways that are important to you. For example, they may not want to take a trip together or invest in a couples’ activity that you’ve been wanting to try. A stingy boyfriend may prioritize saving money over investing in the relationship and making memories together.  For instance, if you ask him for a photoshoot together, he will refuse, saying that is for childish people. 

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9. SEX IS THE ONLY THING YOU GAIN FROM THEM.

A stingy boyfriend has nothing to offer in a relationship other than sex.  When it comes to bedtime, they can spend an hour claiming they love you, but when it comes to taking responsibility, they’re nowhere to be found. If your boyfriend demands sex in exchange for the money he spends, this could be a sign you’re dating a stingy boyfriend. Once they send you a common 2K, the next thing you hear is, “When are you visiting me?” That is to tell you, “Nothing goes for free.”

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10. HE’S HAPPY FOR NOT ASKING HIM FOR HELP.

Almost every man wants a self-sufficient woman who can help them economize their money and won’t be a burden to them, but for stingy men, they are always happy for not demanding anything from them. Even for a #200 recharge card, they can call you over 100 times to confirm if you have seen it.  A real man wouldn’t wait until you told him before he knew what to do. For example, if he calls you and asks why you haven’t been online, and you tell him you have no data subscriptions, he will ignore you and wait until you ask him to do data for you. Stingy boyfriends are happier when you ask nothing from them.

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11. HE TALKS HURRIEDLY ON THE PHONE.

Some guys are so stingy to the extent that they are always conscious of their airtime, so they summarize whatever they have to say on the phone. Before you uttered a word, he would have ended the call, and it will take another few days before he calls back. If your boyfriend doesn’t spend close to a minute with you on the phone or always complains about not having airtime, this is a sign of him being stingy. 

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12. HE WON’T ORDER ANY MEALS.

Stingy guys will never cease to amaze me. Despite being the one who asks you out on a date, they will start looking at you stylishly when you order fried rice and chicken and show uncomfortable signs. When it’s time for them to make an order, they will pretend to have no appetite when the lady is eating. All they like to do is discuss sexuality so you can land in his bed. Normally you should run from men like this because this is stinginess at the PhD level.

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13. RELUCTANT TO PAY TRANSPORT FARES.

There is no law that states that a man must pay for your T-fare, but for stingy men, after a date with them, he will call and start explaining to the gods why he forgot to pay for your transport fare.  He might give you silly excuses that his bank network was poor or he forgot his wallet at home. The funniest part here is they’re always reluctant to pay for transport fare until you reach his house. He will be like, “When you get here, I will sort you out.”   After seeing you off, he waited patiently to get a cab and squeeze the money into the driver’s hand. Guess what?  It’s just the exact amount for the cab. 

14. MY HOUSE OR NOWHERE ELSE.

Another sign to look for if your boyfriend is stingy is when he tells you his house or nowhere else. This is to avoid spending a kobo on you. They always like to cut costs.

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15. HE BUYS GROCERIES HIMSELF, SO YOU WON’T GAIN FROM HIM.

If he wants you to cook for him, he will never give you money to buy groceries; instead, he prefers to go to the market himself to buy the stuff, so you won’t gain a kobo from him. There’s nothing wrong if a man stocks his home himself, but if this has become a habit of his, it could be a sign of stinginess. 

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In conclusion, a stingy boyfriend can be a major source of frustration in any relationship. It’s important to be aware of the signs of stinginess and to address them directly with your partner. If your boyfriend is unwilling to work with you to build a healthy relationship, it may be time to reconsider whether this is the right partner for you.

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