EDUCATION

Sex Education Lecture: Xxx 111 Class on 9jaPolyTv

Sex is one of the most talked-about yet misunderstood topics in our society. For years, myths and misconceptions have been passed down from generation to generation, leaving many people misinformed. Some of these so-called “facts” are a mix of morality, culture, and religious beliefs—while others are outright falsehoods. In today’s Sex Education 111 class on 9jaPolyTv, we’re explaining these one by one, separating fact from fiction, and helping you understand the truth about sex without the sugarcoating.

Sex education is barely taught in schools. In fact, there are many misconceptions about sex because a lot of people mix morality and religious beliefs with facts. In today’s sex education class, we will talk about the real facts of sex education.

1. “Sex Before Marriage Will Lead to Regret”

Sex before marriage in itself does not necessarily lead to regret. Whether to have sex before marriage or after is a personal decision. Every decision you make has consequences, regardless of your sexuality. You just have to sit down and decide what works best for you.

The idea that sex before marriage will automatically lead to regret is mostly a moral teaching meant to discourage unwanted pregnancies and abortions. While it is okay and healthy to avoid sexual immorality, you should be able to separate religious teachings from actual facts.

2. “All Virgins Bleed”

Not all virgins bleed. The belief that a woman must bleed during her first intercourse is false. Bleeding is not a solid proof of virginity, so not all virgins will experience it.

This myth has ruined many relationships. It’s unfortunate that even people who claim to be educated still believe in such outdated ideas.

3. “Dick Enlargement Creams Will Make Your Penis Bigger”

Bro, stop wasting your money. No pill, cream, or herb can make your penis bigger. The average penis size is about 5 to 7 inches when erect, and no gel, cream, or herb will change that.

The enlargement products market is booming because sellers are making money off your ignorance and lack of sex education.

4. “Sleeping with a Woman Will Collect Your Destiny”

This is just a fallacy propagated by certain religious and cultural teachings to scare people. If destiny worked that way, a lot more people would be rich today.

Instead of planting unnecessary fears in children, parents should teach them the real consequences of sex—such as unwanted pregnancies, STIs, and emotional impact—rather than saying things like “If you have sex, you will die” or “You will get pregnant if a man touches you.”

5. “You Lose Your Virginity If You Masturbate”

No! Masturbation does not take away your virginity. Virginity is lost through penile penetration, not by touching yourself.

While masturbation can be seen as a form of sexual immorality, it does not change your virginity status.

6. “Sex During Your Period Will Block Your Progress”

Your blessings have nothing to do with having sex during your period. In fact, it can even help relieve cramps and improve intimacy. However, the risk of STIs is higher, and pregnancy is still possible.

7. “Pills Will Cure PE and ED”

Pills may provide a temporary fix for premature ejaculation (PE) and erectile dysfunction (ED), but they are not a permanent cure. Diet, lifestyle, and mental health also play major roles in improving sexual performance.

8. “Masturbation Will Block Financial Progress”

Masturbation is a physical and mental health issue—it has nothing to do with your financial progress. The only way it could affect your money is if it distracts you from working or affects your mental focus.

Stay away from it for your physical and mental well-being, but don’t attach it to spirituality.

9. “Having Sex Regularly Prevents Prostate Cancer”

False. Prostate cancer is not determined by how often you have sex. Even daily sex will not prevent it. Stay informed and get your medical facts from credible sources, not random myths.

10. “Having Sex Will Make You Lose Your Destiny”

You can go broke because of poor financial habits, overspending, womanizing, or unexpected circumstances—not because you’re not having sex.

Sex and money rituals are two different things. If someone uses another person for rituals, it is the ritual that causes harm, not the sex itself.

11. “Oral Sex Is a Taboo”

Oral sex in itself is not a taboo, but it can carry health risks such as mouth herpes. It can increase intimacy in relationships, but you should always practice safe habits to protect your health.