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20 Signs that Shows You are Fully Ready for Marriage

20 Signs that Shows You are Fully Ready for Marriage
Marriage, a union of two souls, is a significant milestone that requires emotional, mental, and practical readiness. It’s a commitment that demands understanding, compromise, and the ability to overcome life’s challenges as a team. Before taking this leap, it’s crucial to assess your own readiness.
Marriage is beautiful, fun, and blissful when you are with the right person. Have you been thinking about the right time to walk down the aisle with the love of your life? Here are 20 signs to confirm if you are fully ready for marriage.
20 Signs You Are Ready for Marriage:
1. Life Goals Are Accomplished.
Before you get married, you must have accomplished your life goals. This may be your education, career, job, or other things that matter to you. If you have graduated from school, gotten your career job, and it seems like almost all your goals have been accomplished in life, this is a sign that you are ready to get married.
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2. Financially Stable.
Marriage is more about responsibility than just love, unlike relationships, where partners focus more on loving each other. In marriage, it is all about taking responsibility. Are you financially independent? Can you take care of yourself and your kids? If the answer to this question is yes, you are good to go.
By now, you already have your own apartment and other things that a man or woman is supposed to have to start a family. This may include a nice apartment, furniture and fittings etc.
Before you go into marriage, your number one sign is your finances. If you have gotten to the stage whereby you think money will no longer be a problem, this shows you are fully ready for marriage.
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3. You Are Aging.
Although marriage has nothing to do with one’s age, nevertheless, women of 23 years age and men of 25 years age and above are fully ready for marriage. The right age to get married is 23 years and above as long as both partners are ready emotionally, financially and are mentally stable.
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4. Needing Care And Love.
That moment when you think you need someone to take care of you and show you love. That moment you crave to have your loml sleeping next to you while you cuddle them is a sign that may indicate you’re ready for marriage.
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5. Friends and Family Support the Relationship.
Who to get married to is a personal decision, but choosing someone who your family and friends like and cherish also means a lot. If your family and friends support your relationship and endorse your marriage, this is a big win for both of you. Have you met with his or her parents yet? Do they support your relationship? If yes, you are ready to get married.
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6. You Have Been Through Tough Times Together and Survived.
If you and your partner have remained together despite going through tough times that ought to have turned you apart, this is a sign that you are destined to be together and thus ready for marriage.
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7. You Are Prepared for Marriage Challenges.
As a couple, it is crucial to know that marriage is not going to be perfect, as there are many unpleasant days ahead. Days when you will have misunderstandings, a day when you will be dealing with emotional stress and financial challenges.
If, by now, you already understand that there is no perfect marriage or perfect couple and are ready to prepare for the challenges of marriage, this is a sign that shows you are ready to get married.
8. You Want to Get Married for the Right Purpose.
Getting married for the right purpose will ensure happiness during and after the marriage. Make sure you marry them for the right reasons and not just because of their money, wealth, position, or power.
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Make sure the reason you are getting married is not because all your friends are getting married or because your family and friends are pressuring you for marriage.
Marrying for the wrong reasons can lead to making the wrong decision and the wrong choice, which may also cause unhappiness in the marriage. Make sure you are getting married for the right reasons. Marriage is not just about the wedding party; it is also about the life and future that will happen after the marriage.
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9. You Have a Good Source of Income.
In addition to no. 2, having a good source of income is a sign that you are ready for marriage because marriage is more of a responsibility. Taking care of your wife, paying for the children’s school fees, and attending to their needs all require money.
It is advisable to have double or multiple sources of income before you enter marriage. Multiple sources of income will save you from any financial challenges after marriage. If you don’t have a good job or a good source of income yet, please stay single.
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10. You Have the Same Thing in Common.
If you want to get married, it should be with someone who shares the same common goals as you. Someone who will motivate you when you are down, someone who will be your cheerleader. Your partner should be more or less on the same page with you; this is to avoid disappointment in the future.
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11. You’ve Made Your Choice.
Another sign that may indicate you are ready to get married is if you have made your choice of whom to marry. You have dated them for years and seen them in their good, bad, happy, and sad moods. You’ve known their likes and dislikes, their weaknesses and strengths, and yet you still chose to love them for who they are.
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12. You Are Ready to Take Nonsense.
If you are not ready to take nonsense, please stay single because your partner can act stupid at times, and thus you shouldn’t take everything seriously. You must be ready to tolerate nonsense in marriage, as that way, you will survive the difficult times ahead.
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13. You Are Not Afraid Of Getting Married.
How do you feel when you think about marriage? If you are afraid, you are not ready, but if you are not afraid of marriage and performing your responsibilities as a husband or wife and ready to face the challenges that marriage brings, that is also a sign that shows you are ready to get married.
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14. You Love Them So Much.
If your relationship has gotten to a stage where it’s either “him/her” or nobody else, this is a strong sign that you are ready to get married. One of the most important things in marriage is “love and commitment.” If the love you have for your partner can’t be broken or shaken no matter the circumstances, this is a sign that you are safe to get married.
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15. Your Instincts Tell You That You Have a Future Together.
Does your instinct tell you that your spouse has a brighter future? Do you see yourself happy with them in many years to come? Is he or she always there for you when you need them the most? If the answer to these questions is yes, you are ready to get married.
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16. You Are Emotionally, Mentally, And Spiritually Fit.
In marriage, there are many obstacles, and to overcome these obstacles, you must be prepared emotionally, mentally, and most importantly, spiritually. As a couple, your spiritual life is very important; thus, you and your spouse must involve God in your marriage and the family, as with God, all things are possible.
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17. You Love Children.
If you are already craving to have children and can manage the responsibility that comes with having a child, this is a sign that indicates you are ready to get married.
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18. You Are No Longer Under the Control of Your Parents.
To get married means you will be leaving your parents’ house, and a sign to watch out for that may indicate if you are ripe for marriage, is when you are no longer under the control of your parents. By now, you can take decisions on your own and face the consequences. You can live metres away from your parents without issues. Your parents no longer have to dictate to you what to do and what not to do.
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19. You Are Sexually Responsible.
Commitment is vital in marriage, and it takes a lot of self-discipline to achieve a successful marriage. By now, you know how to say “no” to extramarital sex, and you mean it. If you understand how to discipline yourself sexually and control your emotions, you are ready to get married.
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20. Emotional Stability and Maturity.
A readiness for marriage often stems from emotional maturity. This involves being able to communicate openly, handle conflicts effectively, and understand and manage your own emotions. If you find yourself capable of doing various emotional landscapes with empathy and understanding, you might be on the right track.
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Other signs that may indicate you are ready for marriage are:
- You are attractive to each other.
- You are generous.
- You already know your roles as a husband or wife without anybody needing to tell you what to do.
- You know how to multiply money.
- You understand how to show empathy to your spouse.
- You are ready to forgive or overlook your partner’s flaws and mistakes.
- You are ready to stick to them for better and for worse.
- You know how to manage money and family.
- Your partner gives you peace of mind.
- You’ve met with their parents and they accepted you into the family.
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Do I need a lot of money to get married?
No! You don’t have to be a billionaire till you get married. Get married when you think you can take care of yourself and your family without stress.
What is the most important thing a man must have before marriage?
A man must have a good job or source of income that can take care of his wife and at least a child. A good source of income is the most important thing a man should achieve before thinking of marriage. If you are unable to perform your responsibilities, you will lose respect from your wife and family, and things may not go easy. So before you get married, make sure you have gotten to the stage whereby you can take care of yourself, your wife, and a child without needing to beg people for donations to cater for your family.
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What is the most important thing a woman must have before marriage?
You can take care of yourself and buy things that you need without waiting for another person or waiting for your man to arrive. You have a good relationship with your dad and know how to be submissive to your man. Being submissive is very important, and if you possess this trait, it is a great sign that you are ready to get married because no man wants to be competed with in marriage. You must be ready to accord him the respect he deserves, and he will reciprocate with the same energy.
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In summary, marriage is a blessing that comes with lots of fortune, and if you want to enjoy the blessings that come with marriage, you have to wait for the right time and marry the right person. That way, you will live together forever, and nothing can break your marriage.
Remember not to rush into marriage, because if you do, you will rush out. Be patient in choosing your life partner, and pray to God to lead you to the right path. I pray God helps you choose the right man/woman. Amen.
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