RELATIONSHIP

How to Keep Your Relationship Private in 10 Ways

If you want to build a healthy relationship, you must learn to keep it private, especially if the relationship is still new because privacy is the key to a long-lasting relationship that will lead to marriage.

In my previous article, we discussed the reasons why it is important for lovers in relationships to keep their relationship private, and in this post, we shall highlight ways through which you can keep your relationship private.

1. Take Things Slow.

If the relationship is still fresh, then you need to take things slow. Do not rush to introduce them to your family and friends or flaunt them on social media. Make sure you build mutual love, trust, and understanding, which are the most important things in a relationship, before you introduce them to your family and friends.

2. Avoid Updating Your Relationship Status on Social Media.

I understand you may be tempted to flaunt your relationship online, especially when you see your friends posting their boyfriends or girlfriends with romantic captions. While this is an exciting way to show affection and love to your spouse, you must know when to post on social media.

Avoid sharing everything going on in your relationship on social media. For instance, if you had dinner with your partner, it is not compulsory to post them online. This is to avoid creating jealousy and inviting criticism that may harm your relationship.

By keeping your relationship private on social media, it will be difficult for anyone to come in between you and your significant other. Besides, how will they concentrate on you when they simply don’t know what is going on in your life?

3. Discuss with Your Partner Your Wants.

In a relationship, it is always about “us,” not “me,” meaning you have to consider your partner’s feelings too, as he or she has to be on the same page with you to keep the relationship private.

You can discuss what or what not to share with the public about your relationship. It is crucial for lovers to understand that keeping a relationship private is different from having a secret relationship.

In secret relationships, nobody will know you are dating, but keeping your relationship private is just a way to avoid intruders or third parties in your relationship. So, talk to your significant other about what and what not to share with others.

4. Limit the Public Show of Affection.

It is common for lovers to show affection in public, which includes hugging, kissing, and holding hands, just to make others aware of their love life. Remember, your relationship doesn’t need to make sense to anyone else but you and your partner.

Holding hands in public is okay, especially when you are seeing them off in the street; however, if you want to keep your relationship private, learn to limit your public show of affection.

Perhaps you can do whatever you want indoors or when on a date, but limit the public display of affection; this will prevent others from focusing on your relationship.

5. Avoid Telling Your Friends About Your Relationship.

Set a clear boundary between your relationship and friendships. Do not discuss your relationship weaknesses and strengths with your friends, no matter how much you trust them. If your boyfriend bought a new phone for you, there is no need to advertise it to your friends. There is no need to tell your friends how good your girlfriend is in bed. By keeping your relationship private, you are saving it from any instrument that may destroy it.

6. Settle Fights Without Third Parties.

Another way of keeping your relationship private is to settle every fight and misunderstanding among yourselves. No matter what, do not bring a third party, whether they’re your family or friends, to beg your significant other on your behalf. They will make things more complicated.

Learn to settle every fight within yourselves and understand the love language in your relationship. By doing this, not even your best friend would know about what was going on in your relationship.

7. Don’t Make Birthdays and Important Dates Public.

Birthdays are one of the most important and inevitable aspects of our lives. Celebrate your birthdays, Valentine’s Day, and other important dates in low key. There is no need for you to invite friends on your spouse’s birthday. Just you and them, and it’s going to be fun.

If you would like to share your celebrations on social media, consider using privacy settings or share it with your close friends. Don’t fall for the temptation to join the crowd. The day is special, whether you share it or not.

8. Enjoy Quality Time Together.

Allocate time for just the two of you, free from the distractions of technology or outside influences. Engage in activities that you both enjoy, and savor the intimacy of being fully present with each other.

9. Respect Each Other’s Privacy.

Trust is a cornerstone of any healthy relationship, and respecting each other’s privacy is integral to building and maintaining that trust. Avoid snooping through personal belongings or messages, and instead, foster an atmosphere of openness and honesty.

10. Avoid Comparisons.

Comparing your relationship to others can be detrimental. Every relationship is unique, and what works for one couple may not work for another. Focus on your own journey and the things that make your partnership special.

In conclusion, keeping your relationship private is good and a better choice. It will save you from the pressure of living under the false approval of social media.