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9 Ways to Tell Your Girlfriend You Don’t Have Money: How to Handle a Girlfriend Who Loves Money

9 Ways to Tell Your Girlfriend You Don’t Have Money: How to Handle a Girlfriend Who Loves Money
Have you been in a relationship with a girlfriend who loves money? Well, everybody loves money, but if your girlfriend speaks about money, talks about money, and can’t bring any other valuable things to the relationship other than billing you always, then this question, “How do I deal with a girlfriend who loves money?” might come to your mind.
While giving and taking care of your woman is one of your responsibilities as a boyfriend, it is crucial to understand that taking care of all her bills is not your full responsibility unless you are married.
It can be so annoying to have a girlfriend who is always in need of money, and no matter how much you help, she will still suffocate you again with billings, and now you begin to ask yourself if you have to pay her to love you.
If you are at this point where it seems you have to pay her to love you, below are 9 steps to try to handle a girlfriend who loves money and constantly wants you to foot all her bills.
1. Give Her Money to Start a Business.
If you are tired of footing her bills, give her money to start a business or learn a skill. Tell her the goal is for her to become financially independent. When you give her money to start a business or learn a skill that will fetch her money, this will send a signal to her that you are tired of her billings all the time.
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She will be left with no other option than to reduce her billings on you. Perhaps if your woman loves money and material things and has always put pressure on you, why not just give her tangible money and tell her to use it to start a small business or learn a digital skill to make money? This will stop her from billing you constantly.
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2. Knack Her Before Giving Her Money.
If your girlfriend is among those girls who always suffocate their man with constant billing, make sure you knack her very well before giving her the money. If she requests #10,000, make sure you knack that #10,000 out of her before giving it to her. This may reduce her billings because she knows that you are not a cheerful giver.
Whenever you knack a girl before giving her money, she will understand that you are not a cheerful giver who succumbs to all her demands and may be forced to stop billing you.
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3. Tell Them Your Money is in an FDA.
Another way to handle a girlfriend who loves money is by telling them that all your money is in a fixed deposit account, and you don’t have access to it until after 3 years.
If she asks for money, tell her to be patient; your money is on the way but is currently in a fixed deposit account and you have no access to it.
By saying this to her, she won’t have other options than to reduce her pressure on you to foot all her bills.
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4. You Also Have Your Own Responsibilities.
If it looks like your girlfriend’s love for money is excessive, then this may be the right time to tell her that you also have other responsibilities to attend to apart from the relationship. Perhaps you can show her your financial plans and what you intend to achieve.
If she demanded a phone and you couldn’t afford it, tell her that you have emergency things that you want to use money for at the moment and you can’t help. Besides, you can’t love her more than you love yourself.
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5. Give Without Asking.
Another trick for handling a woman who loves money is to give to her without asking for it. When you have some change on you, you can credit her account, no matter how little it is. This way, she won’t be able to bill you all the time after receiving a token from you already.
Moreso, if she demands too much, you can give her the excuse that money isn’t available with you now. If she loves you, she will understand because she knows you will give her what she wants if you have the money.
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6. Never Promise What You Can’t Fulfill.
One of the easiest ways to deal with a girlfriend who can’t do without billing you is to never promise them anything. If she asks for something and you know you don’t have it, you could say, “I will think about it and see what I can do.” Never promise her, because if you are unable to fulfill the promise, she might think you do not love her or see you as a liar.
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7. Let Her Know That You Are Broke.
If you are broke and you don’t have any money on you, tell your girlfriend that you are broke. In fact, she may offer you financial assistance if she sees that you are serious about it. What matters most is sincerity and open conversation.
Be honest with her about your financial status, and she will understand. You don’t need to use statements like “let me see what I can do” when it’s obvious there is nothing you can do at that moment. Don’t get into debt or neglect your own needs because you are trying to please her. I’m sure if she loves you then she will understand.
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8. I Can’t Afford It, But I Will Provide What I Have.
If your girlfriend has been putting pressure on you to get some things for her that you know you can’t afford, just be straight and tell her, “Babe, I can’t afford this right now, but I will send you what I have so you can add to it and get it yourself.”
For instance, if she demanded a phone worth #100,000 and you could only afford #20,000, be straight and let her know that you can only afford 20%, so she should find the 80% herself. She won’t be mad at you; at least you still try to contribute. You can’t afford to run into debt to please a woman.
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9. Disappear Anytime She Bills You.
This tactic is the best for handling a girlfriend who can’t do without billing you. Anytime she asks you for money, disappear for some time and come back again.
Don’t call her, text her, or chat with her; whenever she calls, just give her the excuse that you are busy and will call back later. She won’t be able to bill you or remind you of her demands because your attention is unavailable. You can disappear for two weeks while giving her a tangible excuse to cover yourself. If she still bills you again, then go on another break. By doing this, your girlfriend will understand you are tired of being billed every time.
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In summary, there is no true love without giving. If you love a woman, you should be able to spend money on her no matter how little it is. This is an effective way to show love to your girlfriend.
However, if her love for money is too much than you can explain and she still bills you beyond your capacity, you may have to deal with her by applying some of the tips above, and let’s hope it works for you. Afterall, things change, time changes and so does the finances!!
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