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How Family History Affects Life, Relationship, Marriage and Education

How Family History Affects Life, Relationship, Marriage and Education

How Family History Affects Life, Relationship, Marriage and Education

Family history can be referred to as the past and immediate records of a particular family which can be transferred from one generation to another. Sometimes when things go wrong in our life, we blame God for our own misfortune whereas God is not evil. Have you ever sat down to think about the source of your problems? Why do you always have carryover every semester? Why are you the Only one left as the son/daughter of your parents? Why do you always run into debts when you try to invest in a business? Why did you always have a failed relationship? Why can’t you point out any achievement since you were born into this life? The answer to all these aforementioned might be connected to your family history. So how does family history affect One’s life?


In some families’ poverty is their own family history Problem. No matter how hard you try to hustle your efforts will always be futile and you may end up being poor if you don’t buckle up your belt. Have you discovered that  no one is rich or financially buoyant in your family? when you call your brother the response you get is “I don’t have ” when you call your sister her response will be “I’m broke” even your parents had to work at the expense of their life to survive and if you notice all these, it is advisable for you to buckle up and be prayerful so that you won’t end up being poor like your Parents.

You don’t want to be poor like your parents and grandparents, right? So, what are you doing right now to ensure you don’t fall where your ancestors fell? There are some people that rose from a poor family and still become somebody in life because they discover their family history problem on time, and they choose not to fall where their ancestors fell.  If your parents are poor and your grandparents and great grandparents were poor, then you have a lot of work to do to break the poverty history in the family.

Have you figured out your own family history? Is it poverty that is your own family history? What are you doing right now to avert poverty? Are you still sitting down at home expecting manners to fall from heaven? Think about this and work on it so that you won’t inherit poverty. In every family there is a particular person that will erase the family history therefore it is up-to you to be the person who will eradicate or inherit the family’s history of poverty.

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In some families’ premature death is their own family history, no matter how you try, people in this family history don’t live long. It’s either they die at a young age or die when it’s time for them to flourish. Do you Notice too much premature death in your own family? That may be a sign for you to be prayerful because you don’t know who is next.

In some families, they don’t go to school and if you have the opportunity to be the only one to pass through school and graduate, it means you are lucky and grace found you but still, you need to be careful so that you won’t die prematurely. You would notice that some Corp members (NYSC) Usually die after or during their service year maybe due to sickness or accident, this may be connected to family history since the family members are known to have always died prematurely.

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Polygamous family is the history of some people. In this category, it is rare to see a man with one wife. This is the type of family whereby the Woman will have three children for different men and their sons will keep more women as wives. They will be like “My Father had 7wives” so they date as many women as possible and even impregnate them.

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That your father had many wives doesn’t mean you should do the same, the same many wives your father have and yet still die poor, is that the same history you want to repeat? It has always been our parents’ prayer that we should be better than them so how will you be better than your parents when you are following their wrong footsteps? Or do you want history to repeat itself? What is that thing that happened to your father, your mother, your elders in the family? Discover it and make sure it doesn’t happen to you.

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In some families, they don’t achieve anything there, their life is always stagnant. If you do business, it won’t bring profit, if you try relationships, you will always experience heartbreak, even if you try going to school you might always have carryover. Have you observed no one has ever achieved anything in your family?? If yes, then it’s time for you to work very hard. First of all, distance yourself from the family and work toward your spiritual life. Distancing yourself from the family is good but not as good as being prayerful.

Every semester you always have carryover despite the fact you know deep down that you did all you could and did your best, but it seems your best is not enough. You just have to be prayerful because it might be a family history problem. In some family you can never find a graduate there and in a case whereby you are lucky to be the only one to go to school in the family and experiencing all these academic frustrations there are two things to do; work hard and be prayerful, that is, put more efforts in your academics and also channel more energy on your spiritual life.

Carryover is not a new thing to some students because they always have it every semester,  in fact it has led to an extra year for few of them to the extent that they were unable to graduate  with their colleagues and this problem can be connected to family history, in a family where a graduate can’t be found and as I said earlier work hard and pray so that you can overcome this problem.

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Family history can only be eradicated with prayer, precaution and determination. Some family history Maybe as a result of generational curse, hereditary or unforeseen circumstances. First of all, you have to be prayerful then set a determination to break the record and also take precautions. If no one has ever graduated in your family then have a determination to graduate, have a determination to get married and not out of wedlock, have a determination to break the record of poverty and you notice I stated earlier that you must take precaution, right? Yes, if you have already decided to graduate in school you have to be serious and avoid distraction because distraction can cause your failure and allow history to repeat itself on you.

Likewise, if your own family history is poverty don’t go the extra mile to break the record by doing Ritual or yahoo because at the end you may end up being poor, so you have to strive hard to break the record.

Eradicating family history is not by taking shortcuts, just pray for grace, have determination and take caution. Some ladies think marrying a rich man is the only way to eradicate their poverty family history, but it doesn’t really work like that except if grace found you. Just like you know people usually get married out of wedlock in your family then you must take precaution by learning how to close your legs or zip your trousers to avoid Stories that touch.


Family history is in various forms, scientifically. According to what I was taught in biology, we were made to understand that genes are transferred from parents to offspring which means if your father is a diabetic you have to start taking precaution from now because there is a possibility of you being a diabetic. If your father was a thief, you have to take caution so as not to inherit such traits from him. Science confirms family history as an important factor in one’s life, this is why it is very important for you to know your own family history so that you can take precaution to avoid future recurrence, that is, to prevent what happened to your ancestors from happening to you.

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Is family history important while choosing a life partner?

Yes, family history is important when choosing a life partner, our fore-bearers were not stupid but so wise to investigate the family a girl or man comes from before agreeing to a marriage proposal. When I was younger, I used to listen to elders saying things like “You can’t marry that person because she is not from a good Family” now I understand.  It is necessary for you to at least know a brief history about your partner’s family before going into marriage or when you notice the relationship is heading straight it is necessary as this will enable you to know the kind of family you are dealing with. 

My point here is that when you are in a relationship, always try as much as possible to figure out the family history of your partner and compare and contrast it to his or her attitude, character and behavior. For example, you discovered that My mom sells hard drugs and alcohol or runs a bar club. You really need to pay attention to me if I’m a drug addict too. The girl is more likely to do the same things her mom did because the majority of ladies build their characters from their moms and the guys the same.

When family history Starts, it usually looks like a normal routine but when it begins to turn from one generation to another it gradually leads to generational curses until you realize this and take caution.

Some will be like “Shebi my father did not go to school, my sister married thrice, and nothing happened” well are you planning to allow history to repeat itself on you? Rebuke it and work towards it even if nobody has ever graduated in your family, have the intention to break the record.

Never be discouraged by your family history problems, you just have to be serious and know what you are doing.

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In conclusion, I want you to sit down and think about these. What is that thing that happened to your ancestors and is still happening in your family?  Is it poverty? Lack of Education?  Failed Marriage? Unwanted pregnancy? Barrenness? Health challenges? Think about it and have a determination to eradicate this family history from your own generation and don’t forget to always pray because prayer is the key and always take caution. Bad history won’t repeat itself on you in the Almighty God name I pray.  Amen. I believe you have learnt something today??  Drop your comment.



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  1. Kimkay


    God bless you
    May you never lack the wisdom to multiply and sustain all that you work and pray for Inshallah 🙏🏿🤲🏿

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