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Sex Alternatives: 5 Ways to have Great Sex without Intercourse (Penetration)

Sometimes intercourse isn’t possible; maybe your spouse isn’t in the mood; you just gave birth; you don’t want to try sex for now because you are still a virgin; maybe you are battling with erectile dysfunction; or one of you is ill. That doesn’t mean that you can’t get intimate with each other; perhaps understanding and communication is the solution.

Intimacy goes beyond intercourse; it’s not just about the sex; it’s about the closeness, the connection, the feelings, and the bond you have for each other, which is an important part of keeping any relationship and saving your marriage from collapse.

At times, you may not be in the mood, and your spouse will ask for s€x, but what do you do in this situation? You don’t just push them away so you won’t look selfish; instead, there are better alternatives to s€x without penetration, and below are 5 alternatives to try.

1. Kissing and Cuddling.

Kissing, hugging, and cuddling is a form of intimacy that creates arousal. Touch each other throughout the day, kiss them, stroke their hair, and fondle their breasts. find opportunities for more intensive touching, such as giving each other massages. Find out which part of their body provides the most pleasurable sensation and focus on it.

2. Oral Sex.

Oral s€x is the best alternative to s€xual intercourse because it helps to achieve orgasm without penetration. Oral s€x involves giving your spouse a blowjob, like using your mouth or tongue to lick their clitoris like a cat flicking a pot of milk.

You may choose to suck your man’s d*ck too. Both of you will achieve orgasm without penetration. I try this with my partner whenever they are not in the mood, and it feels good. However, it is important to understand the risks involved in oral sex; therefore, play safe and apply caution. By the way, if you can’t give out sex, at least you should be able to give head.

3. Masturbation.

Masturbation is the manual erotic stimulation of the genitals or other erotic regions, often to orgasm, either by oneself or a partner. Masturbation is an alternative to sex; it involves using your hands to stimulate your genitals until you achieve orgasm.

Masturbation may be recommended for individuals without partners who crave to have sex as it may be the best alternative to sex for some people. Nevertheless, instead of doing it yourself, you can tell your spouse to do it for you. Perhaps if he or she isn’t in the mood, they can help you achieve orgasm without penetration by stroking your genitals.

4. Outercourse.

Outercourse is any sexual activity without vaginal penetration. This type of non-penetrative sex involves rubbing or grinding together. You can practice outside naked or with your clothes on. You might not be having intercourse, but you can still enjoy orgasm and explore other forms of stimulation. Examples of outercourse are bumping your bed, grinding your partner while naked, sucking their breasts, and stroking their genitals till orgasm is achieved.

5. Using Condoms for Sensation.

Similar to outercourse, a condom is also an alternative to sex for men, especially when you are married and have an understanding spouse. If she’s not ready to have sex, fine, you can try other alternatives by wearing your condom.

This is how it’s done: ask her to lie down while she faces her back, gently sleep on her back, then put your D in between her legs or buttocks, then stroke in and out gently, and put your mind in it as if you penetrated the V. The condom will serve as a sensation, and the experience will be pleasurable.

Why sex alternatives?

Sex alternatives are important when you marry a spouse with a high libido or when you are in a relationship with someone who loves sex too much. Remember, you can’t always be in the mood to satisfy their sexual needs.

Too much sex can drain you physically and emotionally. However, it is also important to consider your partner’s feelings and emotions. Thus, if you are too tired to give them sex or not ready to have sexual intercourse yet, trying outercourse or other sex alternatives may be the best approach, so your partner won’t see you as selfish.