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ARE YOU A BIG GIRL OR CHEAP GIRL? (Check Out 11 Things that Define a Big Girl)

Many young ladies have always rate themselves as big girls but who is truly a big girl? This is the second version of my Inspiring Article on “who a big boy is” and today I have come to highlight some important tips that define a big girl. At the end of this article, you should Know whether you are a big girl or a cheap girl.

First of all, i want to make this clear that not all girls you see as big are truly big. Using an iPhone, wearing expensive dresses and making expensive hairs doesn’t make you a big girl. So, what are the things that define a big girl?

1. BIG GIRLS ARE INDEPENDENT LADIES.

The first category of big girls are independent ladies. They work like a man, and they are very creative, they know how to turn #100 to #1,000. They settle their own bills themselves; they don’t depend on a man to survive. They have their own source of income which can either be a skill or a business where they earn and they spend their money on themselves, they might not use the latest clothes like cheap girls, or wear expensive materials but anytime they dress, people always respect them and the unique thing about this category of Ladies is that, men are afraid to approach them because they knew there is nothing new they can offer them that they don’t have unlike cheap girls that needed a man to do ordinary #1,000 data subscription.

Big girls and cheap girls almost look alike but the real big girls are unique because they always sort things for themselves. So, if you are an independent lady, you proudly sort your own bills yourself, you have your own legitimate source of income that you use to pay your own bills, feed yourself and still afford to cloth yourself to look attractive forget you are a not just big girl, but a unique girl. Be proud of yourself.

2. RELATIONSHIP EXTORTION.

A big girl doesn’t depend on a relationship for a living. You can’t impress a big girl with your car, money or material things because they already have the money to sort things out for themselves.

They know what it takes to love and to be loved in the relationship. Majority of the so-called big girls these days now depend on hookup for a living. Cheap girls will even brag that they can’t date broke guys whereas they themselves the so called cheap big girls have nothing to offer in the relationship. If you are the type of girl that depend on a boyfriend for ordinary pad, airtime, data subscription, your big girl isn’t a unique one.

You date as many as possible men and even abort babies to cover your shame, after collecting his money you head to boutique to buy Gucci clothes then posted it online to impress your friends for them to see you as a big girl, but the truth is that you are nothing but just a cheap fake girl. Not until you spread your legs for iPhone before you can be a big girl. Big girls are hardworking girls not lazy women that expect freebies from men. This one is bought by your boo, that one is bought by your bestie #5,000 cloth you can’t afford yourself and you call yourself a big girl?

If you are the type of lady that hustle like a man, you do major things for yourself without always depending on a man and yet you still afford to pay your own bills, cloth yourself and look attractive and Look beautiful my sister you are a big girl and please never compare yourself with other girls who live in an expensive apartment and ride latest cars because you don’t know what their pussy went through before they got that apartment.

My sister appreciates the woman you are becoming keep up the good work. Your future husband will be proud of you Because you have just laid a good foundation for yourself and your coming generation.

3. BEAUTY WITHOUT BRAIN.

The only thing they know is fashion, they can dress well, they know how to apply the makeups, they know the latest clubs in town, they are focused on their beauty and when this category of big girls dress you will think they are intelligent but obviously they have nothing upstairs ask them what they were taught in class they will be like “I don’t understand” but they understand doggy style and even good in missionary style without anybody teaching them how to flush out sperm. Let me use this opportunity to remind you that there is no big girl without brain.

As a Big girl your brain is what makes you unique and different from cheap girls. The real big girls might not write upper credit or distinction, but they are academically sound and 100 times better than cheap girls who will offer lecturer their body in exchange for grade.

4. BIG GIRLS ARE NOT DIRTY.

Never classify yourself as a big girl if you are dirty as that of a pig. You can’t identify this category of big girls easily unless you get closer to them because they are very good at packaging. They can wear one bra for the whole week without washing, their pants is not usually washed they don’t care about that infact their room accommodate rats and cockroaches and theirs is to apply makeup, wear latest cloth and hill shoe just to show the world that they are big and when you sight this type of girl, to approach her will even be difficult because you will think she is kind of big meanwhile she is not. If you fall in this category pls stop classifying yourself as a big girl.

There is clear difference between a dirty girl and a big girl. Big girls are always clean infact when you enter a big girl’s room you wouldn’t want to leave because you will really enjoy your stay as they have essential things that a lady is supposed to have.

5. BEG SCAM.

Big girls don’t beg for money or scam people to collect money. “Send me transport money, send me card, send me Data, I’m broke, I’m sick” etc. all just to get money to buy clothes to show that you belong haba sister you don’t need this imagine posting on your status that you are sick and that you are broke just to get money to fix your hair. Stop the beg scam. All these things can’t make you a big girl rather it makes you look cheap and hungry because that is not a big girl thing. Big girls have a skill that fetched them money.

Stop begging people for money all the time to do big girl. Adamu took you out for lunch, Abraham took you out for dinner, yet you are Still expecting Moses to take you out for Shopping, and you will post the pictures so that people can think you’re a big girl, who are you fooling? Big girls don’t beg for money like cheap girls or dirty girls.

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6. FREEBIES.

Big girls don’t see freebies as a gift. You always want someone to give you a ride, pay for your transport, pay your bills? No that’s not big girl thing. Learn how to reject some offers. Don’t see every freebie as an opportunity.

No man will have to the gut to harass you when you don’t accept freebies from them. You must have seen viral video where a guy collected the things he bought for his babe because he caught her cheating, he even beat her, that’s what you get when you always expect freebies.

I didn’t mean you shouldn’t collect gifts from people but be careful of freebies. Big girls don’t expect freebies they have money to sort things out themselves. Rejecting freebies doesn’t make you a woman with pride It means you are discipline, and you are truly a big girl. Someone invites you to a birthday party because of food you go, someone offered you free foods and you accept my sister learn how to turn down freebies so that people won’t see you as a hungry woman.

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7. FINANCE.

What makes you a big girl is money therefore you should always be conscious of your spending and never compare yourself with cheap girls that only cares about their outlook. It won’t be nice to be use an expensive phone and still beg people for 2k urgently every day. Big girls Don’t spend lavishly, they apply brain on their spendings. Not until you wear Gucci or Versace before you can be Ranked as a big girl. Do your big girl with the little you have and don’t do more than yourself.

Big girls spend wisely Because they worked for their money unlike cheap girls that got theirs by chance.

8. DECENCY.

Most of our youths have gone extra Mile to prove that they are classic big girls, and this is an opportunity to remind you that big girls come with decency. You don’t need to show the whole world your half nude pictures to prove you are a big girl.

You own your life, and you can live it to the fullest but try to be decent. Big girls are decent girls and when I say decent, I didn’t mean You should turn yourself to Mummy GO no I mean you should behave yourself, dress in a decent manner that people would be proud of the woman you are becoming and always talk with maturity when you are interacting with people. If you are part of the big girls that does everything in a decent manner you are not just a big girl but a unique girl. Keep it up.

9. LOVE YOURSELF.

Big girls love themselves and they don’t fake it they can spend any amount on themselves, and they don’t care because it’s their money which they earn through their hard work. Not until You bleached your skin, enlarge your boobs, enlarge your boot to show that you are truly big.

Love your body the way it is, if you are black, appreciate it and if you are light appreciate it and love yourself. Don’t apply fake materials to fool people around. Even if a man falls in love with you and later discovered what he saw in you is scam don’t expect him to stay. Buy things that makes you look unique and not what makes you cheap.