Anonymous Stories and Confessions for June 2025 (Part 1)

1. According to my own dictionary,

blessing means “Good fortune” Meaning he’s good for you according to your pastor.

2.  No! Just work hard and hustle very well  

Believe pastor prediction at your own risk. Plan for your life so you won’t be running from one mountain to the other waiting for a miracle or blessing that would never happen. If nah so blessing dey work, Nigeria isn’t supposed to be one of the poorest countries over the world. Work hard and focus on reality. Anyone can be a blessing to you not necessarily who your pastor said is. Good luck.

3.  Long distance relationship is tough and communication alongside transparency is one of the mjaor challenges.

But here is what I think you should do.

1.  Communicate with her again. 

If the vibes suddenly dropped. Something could be wrong maybe she’s busy due to school or preoccupied by something else. Ask her why she no longer call like before. Her response will give you insight on what next to do. You don’t know maybe it’s due to airtime or other stuffs so communicate with her first 

2.  Keep the vibe going. 

There is something we call “Iron sharpen iron”  for instance, when your cutlass is longer active, you take it to an iron man to blend it for you, same thing applicable to relationships, if your girlfriend has stopped calling, try to keep the vibe going by calling her, text her and chat her. Do this for 2-3 months or 6 months and see if there will be improvement in your relationship from her side.

According to your write-up “Now is time I want to show her love but she’s changed” 

Why now? You should be showing love to each other often and often not just when you think your partner is unavailable. So boss, show her the love and let her see it not just once in blue moon but often and often. This may change her perspective that you are serious about her and reciprocate the vibes.

4.  So sorry dear, take heart, a better man will come.

PS: when something is wrong in a relationship, first of all call their attention or it and communicate instead of ghosting but if it now seems like they no longer care about your feelings, then it’s okay to let go. Losing a relationship that isn’t healthy for you is a win not a lose. We should learn to communicate first before ghosting because another man or woman will be on que to take your position immediately you leave

5.  If you have a boyfriend, courtesy demands that you shouldn’t follow your female friend to her boyfriend’s apartment or follow her to a guy’s house. 

Also, courtesy demands that you should never get close to their man or their toasters. Also, you should never initiate a chat with them except for business or emergency and there should not be a close connection between you and your friends boyfriend or admirers. Only jobless girls looking for what to eat up and down does that. Because if you get job maybe one online business or a skill, your friend won’t ask you to follow her to a man’s house knowing fully well that you don’t have time for that perhaps you are not her body guard. It’s even an unwise idea for a woman to take along her friend to visit her boyfriend or toaster. Very unwise because same friend could snatch him from you. It happens.

However, many girls that does this are the type that want to escape knacking or eat the man’s money and go. You are not her body guard, let them find someone else because you have a boyfriend and if you respect him, your answer to your friends should be “no”

So, yes, boundaries are important in a relationship and perhaps if you value yourself and respect your man, these are simple things you should agree to without arguments. Relationship are built on rules. If you don’t want rules then stay single.

PS: IF YOU ARE A STUDENT, FIND SOMETHING TO DO TO GET YOU BUSY. STOP WASTING YOUR TIME ON UNNECESSARY THINGS. THIS WILL EVEN MAKE YOUR PARTNER RESPECT YOU MORE.