No relationship is actually perfect, as everyone has their own flaws, but you can actually make your relationship healthy and perfect by applying these 10 golden rules.
Why these rules anyway? These golden rules are important in relationships because they help you understand what you want and dislike. It also helps to understand your relationship pattern and your partner’s body language.
If you want to make your relationship a perfect and healthy one, then you must follow these 10 golden rules:
1. STAY FAITHFUL.
You wonder why some couples stay married for over 30 years without divorce and are still happily married together. This is because they were able to stay faithful to each other. If you want a perfect relationship or want to experience what a healthy relationship is, you must be ready to stay faithful to your partner.
Of course, temptation will come, but your ability to overcome such temptations is what builds up a perfect relationship. When you stay faithful to your significant other, no matter how beautiful other women may appear to you or how rich other men may seem to be, you will always choose your partner over and over, and this will give you peace of mind. If this rule is broken, your relationship might never be the same again.
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2. MAKE THEM FEEL WANTED.
Never make your partner feel unwanted. Include them in your day-to-day activities and make them feel needed in your life. You may seek their advice on your plans or tell them about your plans and what you are about to do. Ensure you reply to their texts and respond to their calls; if they call, don’t hesitate to call back. Let them know that they’re important and special to you. A good morning or night text message can also perform this magic.
3. RESPECT YOUR PARTNER.
Respect in a healthy relationship is about the freedom to be yourself and to be loved for who you are and what you’ve become. Talking freely, openly, and honestly with each other and valuing each other’s feelings and needs in the relationship. Showing respect to your partner also means giving each other space, acknowledging their opinions and decisions, speaking kindly and politely about each other, and compromising.
4. DON’T FLIRT WITH OTHERS.
The most important rule everyone must abide by when in a relationship is “don’t flirt with others.” This may look fun to you, but trust me, it really hurts, especially when it’s done often. If you want a perfect relationship, then stop flirting with the opposite sex. You could still make friends and set boundaries. If you can follow this rule, surely you will not have trust and jealousy issues in your relationship.
5. MAKE TIME.
This rule should be number one on the list because it’s very important for anyone in a relationship to make time for their significant other. Spending time together will boost intimacy and happiness in your relationship because you will be able to figure out if anything is wrong and can easily address it with your SO. No matter how busy you are, try as much as possible not to break this rule if a healthy or perfect relationship is what you desire.
Make sure you note this rule in your relationship and remember that an apology doesn’t mean you are wrong or that s/he is right; rather, it means you value your significant other more than the conflicts in the relationship. When you make “I’m sorry” your favorite rule, you are just a step ahead of a perfect relationship. Abide by this rule, and you will achieve a healthy relationship.
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7. BELIEVE IN A “FUTURE TOGETHER.”
When you date someone and don’t see a future together, such a relationship may never survive. So believe in a future together with him or her. See them not just as lovers but as life partners. If you can follow this golden rule, I’m sure no amount of temptation can break you, and this can make your relationship a perfect one that other people will emulate.
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8. MORE ACTION THAN WORDS.
Let your actions speak louder than your words. If you say you love them, prove it with your actions. While the word “I love you” may be sweet to hear, let it also reflect in your actions by being a doer of your words.
9. NO LIES.
If you want a perfect relationship, never fill their ears with lies. A perfect relationship involves two people who are attracted to each other and keep the attraction alive through various means. So if you want the attraction to be alive in your relationship, never fill his or her ears with lies. “No lies” should be an important rule you must abide by to achieve a perfect relationship.
10. A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP ISN’T PERFECT.
Always remember that a perfect relationship isn’t perfect. Every man on earth makes mistakes and has their own flaws, as only God is perfect. Regardless of the differences between you and your significant other, you must be ready to love them with their flaws and encourage them to make adjustments where needed.
In conclusion, to make your relationship perfect and healthy, you both must be ready to apply these 10 golden rules by being faithful, making them feel wanted, no lies; respect your partner; don’t flirt with others; make time for him or her; build each other up; apologize; and let your actions speak louder than your voice. By following these golden rules, a perfect relationship is possible. However, always remember that a perfect relationship isn’t perfect.
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