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My Girlfriend Doesn’t Call Me or Text Me: 5 Reasons and What to Do About It 

My Girlfriend Doesn't Call Me or Text Me: 5 Reasons and What to Do About It 

My Girlfriend Doesn’t Call Me or Text Me: 5 Reasons and What to Do About It

Have you been in a relationship with a woman who doesn’t call you, text you, or chat with you until you call her? She will never call you with her airtime, and when she does, it must be a flash call. 

Building a relationship with these types of women can be annoying, but don’t jump to conclusions yet. Below are five (5) reasons why your girlfriend doesn’t call you and a possible solution to go about it.

1. The Relationship is Still New.

As her boyfriend, it is your responsibility and duty to call her, text her, and chat with her, especially when the relationship is still new. Women love it when men chase them, so if you are serious about her, keep up the energy. Don’t wait until she calls before you call or text. Sometimes, she might be testing you to see if you are serious or pretending; if the relationship is less than 4 months old, it’s too early to complain.

When she sees that you are consistent with the same energy, she may have no other option than to reciprocate by calling you and chatting with you without being forced. 

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2. She’s A Broke Woman.

The truth is that some women love to call their man, but due to insufficient airtime and data, they feel reluctant to do so. Perhaps if your girlfriend is a student or jobless, you may experience this annoying attitude of her not calling you.

What to do: Send her airtime and data once in a while, but do not tell her that you were the one that sent the airtime for you to be sure if this is the exact reason why she doesn’t call you. Keep on calling her and texting her, and if your girlfriend still doesn’t bother to call you despite sending her airtime and data, then you should be worried. 

Sometimes, girls couldn’t call their boyfriends because they don’t have sufficient airtime or data, so to fix this, send her data and airtime, and make sure you do not tell her that you sent her the airtime for you to be sure if this is her normal way of life.

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3. She’s Stingy.

One of the chronic signs of a stingy woman is that she doesn’t like to spend her money on anything, not even a Kobo. They expect you to call, text, or chat. In fact, she might not chat with you if you don’t send her data. 

What to do: Give her a surprise visit, or when she visits you, check her airtime and data balance. If she has more than enough airtime on her phone and yet still doesn’t bother to call you, you might be dating a stingy girlfriend who doesn’t care about you.

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4. She Doesn’t Love You. 

If this relationship is over 6 months and approaching a year, yet she doesn’t call until you called or texted until you messaged her, it could be that your girlfriend doesn’t love you as claimed. Believe me, if a woman truly loves you, she can go as far as borrowing airtime just to hear your voice, knowing fully well that you too will do the same for her.

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What to do: You should question your girlfriend if she truly loves you. When she asks you why, tell her, “Because you hardly call me, you don’t call me except I call you, you never message me until I message you, and this is giving me a serious concern if you truly love me.” 

A good woman will address the issue and reassure you of her love after you raise the issue of her nonchalant behavior. She will give you valid points to clear your doubts. If your girlfriend is still acting like “nobody cares” after raising this issue with her, you may have to start moving on with your life. 

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5. She’s A Busy Woman.

Not everybody has the time to call, chat, or text. Your girlfriend could be a busy woman, in particular if she’s an employee with a heavy workload. Her work schedules and stress may negatively affect the communication in the relationship.

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What to do: Understanding is the most important thing here. Understand that your girlfriend is busy, and due to the nature of her work, she may not have much time to communicate with you. Talk to her about this, and both of you should agree on a time and period for communicating and chatting daily.

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You can come up with an idea to call, text, and chat in the morning or late at night, provided she’s cooperating with you in addressing the issue. 

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What to Do If Your Girlfriend Doesn’t Call You or Chat with You Unless You Call Her.

1. Call her regularly.

Before you complain about a woman not calling you, try to call her regularly and text her too. Be consistent in doing all these, at least for a good six months. Doing this can change her mindset about not calling you.

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2. Open communication.

The possible way out is to ask her directly and talk about your concern. You can simply ask why she doesn’t enjoy calling you and why she doesn’t chat until you text. She’s the only one who can give you reasons for her actions. Listen to her excuse and address it directly.

Make sure you communicate with her and let her know that you are not comfortable with one-sided communication. You could say, “I understand that you are busy and don’t have sufficient airtime, but at least try to be calling me too. I love it when you chat with me; I love it when you text me; and I love it when you call me. Can you do this for me, please?”

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All these aforementioned points may be the reason why your girlfriend doesn’t call you, and if you are experiencing this issue in your relationship, sit your girlfriend down, talk about it, and reach a resolution. Every relationship problem can be solved easily with open communication. 

Also, remember to give her time to adjust to her flaws. However, if your girlfriend doesn’t make efforts to work on her nonchalant attitude, this may be the right time to ask yourself if this relationship is best for you; perhaps you deserve better.

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