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How to Date a Married Man without getting Yourself into Trouble: 7 Ways

Dating a married man is a type of relationship every woman must avoid, but sometimes it is inevitable, as you may find yourself in a situation where you see yourself dating married men for the benefits and pleasure.

Although the reasons why you choose to date married men are best known to you. Below are tips to date them without getting into trouble with their wives and other side chicks.

1. Set Boundaries.

Boundaries are very important when dating married men. Make sure you do not interfere in his family affairs or make inquiries about his family; it’s none of your business. The major benefit of dating married men is for money and care; you can just focus on that to avoid getting into trouble. Avoid meeting in open places in order not to cause any embarrassment.

2. Get a separate SIM and phone for communication.

You may have to get a new SIM card and phone for communication with your man friend. It could be a cell phone for communication. That’s if you are dating him secretly, so nobody will get caught. Do not use your personal contact information for communication to avoid getting caught by his wife or your family and friends.

Perhaps if you are planning on building a healthy relationship soon or you have a boyfriend, if he gets to know about your relationship with a married man, he may end the relationship, so to ensure everything goes well, get a new SIM and phone for communication and keep it private.

3. Meet in Isolated Places, Hotels, And Bars.

Avoid meeting your man friend in his matrimonial home or office; you could get caught, and it may not end well if his wife starts to embarrass you in public. Meet in private hotels or restricted bars to have fun in order to avoid getting caught.

4. Do Not Think of Getting Pregnant for Him.

Do not be carried away by money and care; most of these married men are only using you for sexual pleasure and nothing more, so do not mistake a married man’s sweet words for true love.

Avoid getting pregnant for him because, no matter what, they won’t accept you as a second wife, and most of them will ask you to terminate the pregnancy. You can’t afford to ruin your life because of money and a few minutes of pleasure.

If you do not want to get yourself into trouble, just forget about becoming his second wife or having a baby for him unless you want to be a baby mama.

5. Always Use Protection.

Remember, you are a young lady, and you still have a long way to go. Do not forget your future because of material things; at least protect yourself. Tell your man friend to wear protection; you can’t afford to allow married men to ruin your life because of money.

They will dump you after using you, and you might never recover from the trauma. Always use protection when having fun to avoid being infected with deadly diseases. Married men can’t be trusted because they’re never loyal.

6. Know When to Move On.

Understand that there is time for everything in life. Know when it’s time to end the relationship with your man friend. Of course, your relationship is not going to last forever, so know what you are doing and call it quits when you are done with him. Staying longer with a married man will hinder you from building a healthy relationship, and you don’t want to spend the rest of your life in churches praying for a husband to come.

7. Back Off When You Feel Threatened.

If you don’t want to get yourself into trouble, make sure to back off and call it quits the moment you feel threatened by his wife or outsiders. Women don’t like to share their man with side chicks; thus, if his wife gets to know about your secret affair and she warns you to back off, please back off immediately and call it quits to avoid putting yourself in trouble.

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