Signs to Pay Attention to in a Relationship and What They Mean

There are many advantages to paying attention to the signs in a relationship. These signs help in making thoughtful decisions.

What Do Signs Mean in a Relationship?

A sign is an indicator that predicts the future of your relationship and gives details about the person you are dating. These signs include both green flags and red flags. When you pay attention to them, they can help you make the right decision and perhaps choose wisely. In this article, we will highlight some signs in a relationship and what they mean so you can make an informed decision when you notice them.

Signs in a Relationship and Their Meanings:

Hiding Their Phone

They could be cheating, hiding something, or keeping secrets. If they have nothing to hide, they wouldn’t be hiding their phone from you.

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Putting Their Phone on Airplane Mode

They might be cheating and put their phone on airplane mode to avoid getting caught or to prevent calls from exposing them. If their phone is always on airplane mode when they’re with you, that could be a sign of infidelity.

She Never Calls You with Her Airtime

It means, “I don’t love you or care about you.” If she loves you, she will call you with her airtime and text you with her data. When a woman has no interest in you, this sign will be obvious.

“I Have a Boyfriend, But…”

When she says this, it means she doesn’t mind having you as an extra. She might be a low-key hookup girl or a hoe. This is a sign of disloyalty because hoes ain’t loyal.

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“I Am a Hustler”

It means he is a Yahoo boy. If he can’t clearly state what he does for a living and keeps saying “hustler,” he could be into fraud. A real man will be proud of his hustle, but if he keeps his source of income secret, he might be doing shady business.

They Restrict You from Viewing Their Status

They do this so you won’t see posts they think you might find offensive. It could also indicate infidelity. If you check their phone, you might find something suspicious. Cheaters often block certain people from viewing their status to avoid getting caught.

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“I Don’t Want You to Post Me, and I Can’t Post You”

They might be private or they might have someone else. If they say they can’t post you, it may be a sign they’re not proud of you or don’t want the public to know about your relationship. Perhaps they are seeing someone else in secret.

“I Don’t Check His Phone, and He Doesn’t Check Mine”

A sign of two fornicators in a serious relationship. They keep their phones private from each other to hide their secrets.

They Lie Too Much

Could be a sign of manipulation. They make you believe them even when it’s all lies. They always apologize, yet nothing changes—that’s manipulation.

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They Celebrate Others but Not You

No calls, no chats, no attention, no communication—not even a happy birthday? It could be a sign that you are not a priority, and you might be wasting your time.

He Tells Other Girls He’s Single While in a Relationship with You

If you see his chats flirting with other women, that’s a sign of a chronic womanizer. Whether you continue the relationship is your choice—just don’t expect a womanizer to change for you.

He Flirts with Your Best Friends

That’s a sign of a useless boyfriend. If you ignore this, he might even sleep with your own blood sister.

She Calls You Stingy

That’s a sign of a lazy woman. If she thinks money is easy, let her go and pluck it.

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“No Man Can Tell Me What to Do, What to Wear, or How to Live My Life”

This is a sign of a feminist. Run. If no man can tell her what to do, then what does she need a man for? Unless you are comfortable with competition in your house, you can ignore this sign.

You Found Used Condoms in Their Apartment

A strong sign of a secret affair—especially if you can’t remember the last time you had sex together. Did you also notice strange clothes or sandals in their apartment? That’s another red flag.

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“I Have a Girlfriend, But…” or “I Have a Wife, But…”

This is a sign of a useless man who will ruin your life. Pay attention to this.

He Lasts Only Five Seconds in Bed

That’s a sign of a one-minute man. If you can’t deal with it, you can quit—or buy SIDMED herbs for him.

One Round and She’s Already Dry

That’s a sign of a one-minute woman. If you can’t use lubricant, don’t complain in the future.

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At 25, She’s a Single Mother of Two with Different Fathers

That’s a sign of bad market. Don’t buy. Leave her alone for her baby daddy.

“Men Are Scum. I Hate Men.”

This is a sign of a damaged woman. She might have been broken beyond repair. Let her be or you will regret it later.

Three Years Together and You Haven’t Met Any of Their Family?

This could indicate an uncertain future. After three years, you should have met at least one family member.

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You Caught Her Sleeping with Her Ex

This might be a sign of a whore. Be careful to avoid DNA paternity fraud.

Her Pussy Is as Wide as River Niger

Could be a sign of a retired whore or a woman with a history of multiple abortions.

He Doesn’t Allow You to Touch His Phone

Means you are not the only one he’s dating. If his hands were clean, he would be open with you.

He Doesn’t Spend on You

Could mean he’s still struggling financially—or he’s just stingy.

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He Almost Forced You to Have Sex on the First Date

Might be a sign of a rapist or a man who lacks self-discipline. If given the chance, he could rape you.

Within 24 Hours in a Relationship, “Babe, Please I Need Help”

That’s a sign of a beggar. She needs a job, not a relationship.

“Get Pregnant for Me, I Will Marry You”

This is a sign of deceit. If he wants to marry you, he will meet your family properly.

She Doesn’t Invest in the Relationship

If you are the only one investing, it could mean she’s not afraid of losing you.

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Strange Attitudes and Behaviors

A sign that something is wrong. Apologize or communicate to figure out what’s happening.

They Stop Communicating with You

If they suddenly stop talking to you, it could mean an unresolved issue—or they are slowly moving on.

You Caught Him Cheating Multiple Times

If he keeps sleeping with different women, he’s not sorry for hurting you.

They Always Blame You for Everything

This means they don’t want to take responsibility for their actions.

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“I Don’t Trust You”

They want honesty and transparency from you.

“Are You Cheating on Me?” 

They may have seen something suspicious and want reassurance.

They Don’t Like Your Family

 A sign of incompatibility.

They Complain About Everything You Do 

Another sign of incompatibility.

They’re Jealous of You

It means they are afraid of losing you. If your partner says S/he is jealous, it could mean a sign that they’re afraid of losing to you to someone else. They don’t like seeing you around the opposite sex 

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