I Have a Boyfriend, But Another Guy Is Disturbing Me for a Date: What Should I Do?

I Have a Boyfriend, But Another Guy Is Disturbing Me for a Date: What Should I Do?

If you already have a boyfriend and another guy is constantly disturbing you and asking you out for a date, you should block them or put their numbers on a blacklist. Don’t try to be wise by accepting their proposal with the intention, “Let me just eat his money.”

There is no need to beat around the bush or say we can’t date, but we can be friends. This is where the issue starts.

Although there is nothing completely wrong with keeping toasters as friends provided you set boundaries and know your limits, the problem arises when you begin to accept their gifts without hesitation and flirt with them.

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Don’t bite what you can’t chew. You don’t love them, yet he credits your account; you accept; he takes you out; you order different foods and wines. He sent you gifts, which you always accepted. Now that he is disturbing you for a date or probably asking you out for sex, and your conscience won’t allow you to rest because you gladly accepted his offers when you knew Indeep that you were already in a committed relationship and couldn’t date them.

It is normal and natural for other guys to keep disturbing you and asking you out for a relationship almost every day, but the truth is, most of them are only interested in passing through the road in between your legs and men are not fools or “magas” as you think. Perhaps if you want to be respected as a woman, you have to know how to reject some offers if you are already in a committed relationship.

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If you want to catch a monkey, what do you do? You give them bananas, right? You can’t even catch a fish without using food as bait. The same thing applies here: A man can sacrifice anything just to get the potato within your legs, and after that, he fled. 

Someone asked you out; you said no; he invited you on a date. You went there and even ordered expensive drinks and foods with the intention that “Nah his money go waste.” You also went to his house, where he demanded sex, which you rejected and now imagine what would happen next and the results can destroy the relationship with your boyfriend.

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Besides, it takes a while to develop feelings for someone, whether true love or lust, so before you know it, you may find yourself falling for them, and along the line you will be in a confused situation like “I have a boyfriend and I’m in love with someone else,” but all these could have been prevented in the first place.

In a nutshell, when it comes to relationships, don’t bite what you can’t chew or play games on people’s emotions; you might end up being the victim of the game. If you have a boyfriend who is committed to you and another guy is disturbing you, you can save yourself the temptation of doubt by blocking them off, and most importantly, don’t accept their gifts and offers because those things are just bait. Anyway, the choice is yours.

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