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6 Things to Expect When Dating a Student

Are you in love with someone who happens to be a student? Whether both of you are students or one of you is, this article is for you. There is absolutely nothing wrong with dating a student; in fact, it is one of the best relationship due to the benefits, but there are six things to expect from such relationships.

What are the things to expect when dating a student? They’re listed below:

1. Less Financial Support.

If you are dating a student, then you shouldn’t expect much financial support from your partner. Students often have a lot of bills to foot, ranging from school fees, registration fees, handouts, transportation, and others.

All these together can make savings difficult for them; thus, your boyfriend or girlfriend might not be able to render you financial support as expected, like spending on you, surprising you with expensive gifts, and giving you every time you demand it.

The majority of students depend on their parents and family for financial support, and even those with side hustles among them still encounter a series of financial struggles.

Don’t complain if they’re unable to support you financially. Understand that they’re students with a little or no source of income, so don’t put any pressure on them.

2. Constant Billing.

Expect constant billing if you are dating a student. This is due to the reasons stated in No. 1 above. It is possible that your partner will complain about money every time. Do not be frustrated. This is common among students, as they’re always broke. Perhaps if your girlfriend is a full-time student, she might ask you for money sometimes or lament about money. If you have, support them, and if you don’t, show empathy.

3. The Relationship don’t Last.

Student relationships don’t usually last longer. Most of the relationship ended after graduation due to changes in environment and academic progression. So, if you are dating a student, understand that your relationship may crash after graduation. If this eventually happens, do not be surprised. However, it is up to you and your significant other to make things work.

4. Temptation.

Dating a student comes with another level of temptation. You could face the temptation of cheating on your partner, and vice versa, due to the fact that there are many other students in the school who seem better than your current partner. In fact, it is difficult to trust a student because they could cheat on you with someone else in their school.

The loyalty of a student can’t be trusted. So if you think that guy or lady is loyal to you now, be patient and wait a year after graduation. If they’re still loyal to you after graduation, then you must be really lucky to have a committed partner. Most students often cheat because they are still young and see their studentship as an opportunity to have fun and explore.

5. Less Attention and Quality Time Together.

When dating a student, expect less attention and quality time together, especially if your partner is studying a course that is time-consuming. Many students are focused on their careers and studies, so they might not give you the attention you need.

Your partner could give excuses like examinations, lectures, practicals, tutorials, and assignments for missing important dates or reasons for not making it up to you. They might not visit you regularly unless you are both living in the same area.

6. They’re Always Hungry.

Dating a student can be another level of frustration, especially in a country like Nigeria where hunger looms. Don’t be surprised when you call him or her and they respond, “I’m hungry.” What if you are unable to help? Well, these are the things to expect when dating a student. Either they are broke today or hungry tomorrow.

BENEFITS OF DATING A STUDENT

1. TO BUY TIME:

Dating a student helps you buy time for yourself as a man. There won’t be pressure for marriage from him or her, and if she’s a contented woman, she will appreciate whatever you offer her. You can take advantage of being a student to build yourself and your relationship together.

2. QUALITY TIME TOGETHER.

Depending on their course of study, dating a student paves the way for spending quality time together. He or she may decide to visit you during the semester break, public holidays, or off-lectures. Unlike working-class people, who are always busy.

3. THEY’RE UNDERSTANDING.

Another benefit of dating students is that they can be an understanding partner who will listen to you and be ready to grow with you. Some of them care less about material things. All they want is love and attention.