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Reasons Why People Cheat In Relationship and The Effects of Cheating In a Relationship

Reasons Why People Cheat In Relationship and The Effects of Cheating In a Relationship

Reasons Why People Cheat In Relationship and The Effects of Cheating In a Relationship

Cheating can be described as an act of deception, fraud, trickery, imposture, imposition or infidelity. People now see cheating as encouraging. In fact, some people are even proud of it and they back it up with myths.  Cheating is very common among the male and female gender although people cheat in relationships due to various reasons best known to them but above all what I observe is that most times those who cheat do it for their own gain maybe for money or sex.  Those who engage in cheating always think that they are gaining too much credit without knowing the fact that they are actually a loser. 

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Reasons for cheating in Relationships are

1. REVENGE.

Some people cheat just to get revenge on their partner who cheated on them. The funniest part of it is that you are just making the situation worse. If the reason why you are cheating is because your partner cheated and You want revenge, you may be hurting yourself the most. The consequences of this is that you may risk wasting your money, resources and body and at the end you lose.

2.  MONEY.

Another reason why some people cheat is for financial Gain. This happens in a situation where the partner is unable to meet up with his/her demand thus making cheating inevitable. Apart from the fact that dating multiple women and men for financial gain is infidelity, it is also fraud because you are actually deceiving them with “Love” which you know is deceit and not true love but for you to gain sex and money from them. The consequences of cheating in a relationship is that you may be the loser at the receiving end.

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3. SEXUAL PLEASURE.

Lack of self-control has been the reason why some people cheat even men of God are not left out here because some of them finds it difficult to control their sexual urge and emotions. From my research and experience, I leant that people who chests in a relationship do so to satisfy their sexual urge. This happen in different ways, sometimes in a situation whereby the partner is not always available or sexually active, this may likely result to cheating just to satisfy the sexual urge. And also lack of self-control has ruined many relationships.

You need to understand that No matter how beautiful or handsome your partner is, no matter how rich your partner is, there is always someone out there who may seem to be better, that is, you will always come across someone who is more beautiful, handsome and sexually active than your partner thus commitment and contentment becomes necessary. If you are experiencing any challenges in your relationship or marriage, why not fix it rather than cheat? If it’s not fixable then let go rather than toying with their emotions. Cheating may seem sweet, but the consequences are bitter.

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Those who cheat always think that they are gaining but the fact is, you are a loser. They even gave you a name “Bad boy” in your street because they have known you to be a heartbreaker. You toy with people’s hearts and deceive them with love. You are happy because you sleep with different women every day. Those who are supposed to correct you can’t tell you the truth because they are likely birds of the same features.

You have the strong mind to date three women at the same time, the worst of it is, you use your own money to buy sexual enhancement which is dangerous to your health to make you ‘knack’ her well While you still give her a head, lick her toto and give them money again. Bro you are the one who is the loser here and not the girl. No wonder your life is stagnant you can’t even point out to any achievement in your life because before the money land in your account it is Already budgeted on girls After all what you gain is “Sex.” 

Since all these years you have been cheating all your life what have you achieved other than this sex?? All the money that your Multiple boyfriends gave you, have you bought land with it? No, isn’t it? You are just making yourself cheap for men. I’ve always thought that dating multiple partners and sleeping with them was an achievement, but I realized that I was wrong because it is a big distraction and a total waste of time.

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What are the Effects/consequences of cheating in a relationship?

I. CHEATING TARNISHES YOUR DIGNITY AND IMAGE.

cheating will tarnish your image as your partner will no longer respect and trust you. All these consequences may not be today or tomorrow but when nemesis catches up with you, you will understand that cheating people for your own gain is bad.

2. NO PEACE OF MIND.

You have to lock your phone, hide a lot of secrets just because of what? You don’t want them to know you are a cheater but for how long will you continue this shit? There is nothing as good as being faithful. You don’t need to cheat people to succeed in life, you will always get to your destination with patience, hard work and prayer.

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3.  WASTING OF TIME AND RESOURCES.

You may just be wasting your time and resources. imagine sleeping with three different men in a month?  Even with multiple abortions   Cheating will make you lose much of your money, time and resources. Sending 5k urgently, airtime and other resources after all what did you gain? A cheater is a loser not a winner.

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4. CONFUSION.

In Relationship, a cheater is always confused on whom to choose because Emeka is broke and handsome while Samson is rich but weak in bed. She would run to meet Alfa or a pastor to pray for whom to choose and the funniest part of it is that the Alfa or pastor might be a cheater too, meanwhile all these wouldn’t have happened if she had remained faithful to her partner.

5. STD.

Cheating exposes you to sexual transmitted diseases such as Aids, HIV, mouth herpes and also sexual transmitted demons. If you escape diseases, you may not escape Sexual transmitted demons. if you dont want to spend the rest of your life treating STD its best you stay loyal to your partner.

6. NEMESIS AND REGRET.

The consequences of cheating in relationship is nemesis and regret. You can’t escape karma. It will surely catchup with you one day and by that time, you will surely regret all your actions of cheating on people. The best you can do now is to quickly make adjustments and stop cheating people and defrauding them with love.

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RECOMMENDATION TO A CHEATING PARTNER IN A RELATIONSHIP

If you caught your partner cheating, quitting the relationship is not always the best, you need to understand that we all make mistakes. So, you should give him/her a second chance and talk about interests and reasons why S/he cheated on you in the first place. However, if S/he refused to change, you should consider leaving the relationship, you deserve someone better. 

In conclusion, there is nothing as good as being faithful and committed in relationship as that is the best way to build a healthy relationship that will lead to marriage, always remember that a cheater is a loser and not a winner. if you have been cheating on your partner, it is never too late to make adjustments where necessary. Best of luck.

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