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Dangers of Marrying an “Already Made” Man

Dangers of Marrying an "Already Made" Man

Many girls are more interested in marrying boys who are financially well-off. To them, a husband is “husband material” if he has a good job, a car, and a house. Most of them do not realize that very few successful young men will compromise for marriage. They do not consider the dangers of marrying a man whose success they have not contributed to.

Dangers of Marrying “Already Made” Men:

1. They don’t change for any woman.

If you find him drinking alcohol, he will continue. If you find him womanizing, he will continue to womanize. That comfort zone cannot be changed by marriage.

2. You will have little say on what he has.

When an already established man marries you, he doesn’t see you as a person to value but as property to keep. He will count you among the things he owns. Many girls are treated like objects and not humans because they love material things. With his money, he bought you. With his influence, he married you instead of other girls, so he chooses to treat you however he likes.

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3. You will be eating crumbs.

Have you heard girls saying it’s better to cry in a Benz than smile on a bicycle? Those are wives with cosmetic riches: broken inside but intact outside. Hypertension kills them; they die of depression. They drive cars, but they have no drive within them—no hope, no faith. They fail to leave those abusive marriages because the day they leave, their cosmetic beauty will fade. They are just keeping up appearances.

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4. Your efforts will never count.

You’ll try as much as you can in the relationship, but whatever you do will go unnoticed because the areas in his life that needed fixing were already addressed before you came into the picture.

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5. You’ll never demand his attention but earn it.

He may or may not have time for you. You will always crave quality time together, but to no avail, unless he sees genuine reasons to spend time with you. Only then will you have earned his attention.

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6. He may have a very low libido.

You’ll encounter challenges in reaching cloud nine, traveling to the moon in the long run, and returning with your legs shaking after reaching your climax. If you, as a young woman, are considering marrying a rich man, imagine what will happen with your high libido, sister. Alternatives will not solve those problems throughout your lifetime.

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7. You’ll have some girls to contend with.

When desperate women sense the fragrance of money, they will always fly like bees toward that route. You’ll have to fight sweeter, sexier, and younger women to keep him. A lot of them, even without meeting him, will want to show their admiration, even in your presence.

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8. You’ll always be insecure.

Insecurities will arise in every argument, and he will only change willingly, not forcefully. If you force him, you’ll be asked to choose between staying or leaving, since you never wanted the poverty of your father’s house to repeat itself.

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9. They hardly stay married.

Most of them do not prioritize women, so they don’t care who stays or leaves—as long as the money stays. They call it “more life.” Most of them will never let you experience true love. Instead, gadgets and brand-new cars will be given to you as a medium of apology.

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10. They may never admit they’re wrong.

Hearing the soft words “I’m sorry” would be rare. No remorse, no apologies, always right—because they know your loyalty and affection stop where the money stops. If they were poor, you wouldn’t be there. You’re there because he’s rich, famous, and successful.