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What to Do If You Receive Prophecies Against Getting Married to Your Spouse

The expectation of every lover in a relationship is to get married to their partner someday after dating for years. Unfortunately, things may soar if you receive a prophecy from your pastor, imam, Alfa, or spiritual father that you can’t marry your significant other.

It is very common in society today to receive a prophecy against marrying someone you really love. Some prophets may claim that the marriage will be a regret or that your future together is uncertain.

Have you ever received such a prophecy against getting married to him or her? If yes, these are simple things to do.

1. Be Calm and Analyze the Message.

If you ever receive such a prophecy against marrying your spouse, do not panic or let that spoil your mood; instead, be calm and meditate on it.

Analyze the message: Your prophets must have told you reasons why you should not marry him or her and what will happen if you do. Let’s assume the prophet says you will be unhappy in the marriage. The first question you need to ask yourself is, Does my boyfriend or girlfriend make me happy? Do you see yourself happy with them in future? If yes, you may have to ignore the prophecy.

2. Pray About It.

Are you a believer too? Pray to God to lead you down the right path and show you the way forward. Pray to God, and ask your family and friends to pray with you on this journey. If this prophecy is connected to any spiritual problems, there is nothing prayer cannot do. Besides, prayer can change bad prophecies.

The prayer point is: God, if this man or woman I’m dating is wrong for me, please separate us, and If He or she is mine, please strengthen our relationship with love, understanding, and wisdom to keep us together forever.”

3. Inform Your Partner About This Prophecy.

If you have prayed about it, you can talk to your partner about the prophecy you received. However, make them aware that the prophecy doesn’t change your love for them, your commitment to them, and the relationship.

If your partner claims to have received the same prophecy against you guys getting married, it is important that you join hands together and pray to God to give you wisdom and strength against any obstacle that may destroy your relationship and marriage in future.

4. Not Every Prophecy Comes to Pass.

What most people fail to understand is that not all prophecies come to pass. Prophecies are just like predictions of what will happen in the future, and as we all know, most predictions fail, so if your pastor or imam says you can’t marry each other, just thank them for the message and appreciate it while you ignore the prophecy.

This problem is usually faced by people who depend on prophets for their spiritual growth. If you keep on running to prophets for them to choose a life partner for you, you might regret it later because they might choose something bad for you, claiming S/he is someone you must marry.

God does not choose a husband or wife for anyone; it is you who will choose who you want to marry while he blesses your union. The point here is that any prophecy against you marrying your significant other is a prediction; don’t worry yourself about it; otherwise, your relationship could be manipulated by prophets.

I’ve seen several situations where prophets mislead their gullible members about who to marry. In fact, many marriages have collapsed as a result of fake prophecies by the so-called men of God. It is better to follow your heart and trust your instincts than prophecies, because not every prophecy will become a reality.

5. Focus on the Relationship.

When you receive a prophecy against marrying your spouse, you need to focus your attention on the relationship and identify its strengths and weaknesses.

Do you love each other genuinely, understand one another, and are quick to resolve any conflicts in the relationship? Are you happy with him or her? Do you see your future together as happy? If the answer to these questions is yes, then you don’t need any prophets to determine for you who to marry. Focus on the strengths of your spouse while making adjustments to their weaknesses.

6. Don’t Break Up.

When you receive such a prophecy, breaking up should be the last thing to do. Try to handle this with an open conversation with your partner and be ready to navigate this challenge together.

Breaking up with your boyfriend or girlfriend just because of a prophecy against marrying each other is unwise. If they’re everything you want in a man or woman, why do you still have to break up with them because of a prediction?

Prophecies are like predictions of what will happen in future; I’ve witnessed many prophecies that never came to pass and some that did, so it is up to you to take responsibility and not rely on prophets on how to manage your life affairs.

It’s like saying rain will fall tomorrow; of course, there is no assurance that rain will fall, and if it does, you should be prepared to get an umbrella. The umbrella in this illustration represents your preparedness to tackle dangers ahead as predicted by the prophet.

Imagine dating someone for 4 years and everything was going well with the relationship until a prophecy against marrying each other comes and now you want to dump him/her? Trust me, this might be your biggest mistake ever. If you believe in him or her, just ignore the prophecy against marrying each other and focus on loving one another and building a future together.

7. Talk to Someone.

You may consider talking to someone who you trust in regard to the prophecy against marrying your spouse, as their advice can be useful in handling the situation. You may have to talk to a therapist who is specialized in relationships and marriage, as they will gladly give you therapeutic advice on the right path. You can also talk to an elder with similar experience, as their recommendations can be very useful in your decision-making.

Is it advisable to wait for God to choose the right man or woman for me?

When choosing a life partner, patience is the key, but that doesn’t mean you will wait and do nothing while expecting the right man or woman to come to you.

The truth that your prophets will never tell you is that God does not choose a husband or wife for anyone. It is up to you to decide who you want to be with while he blesses your union, and that is why you are bound by prayers at your wedding so your marriage can be a fulfilling one.

While it is important to pray to God to choose the right man or woman for you, you will still be the one to select for yourself who you want, so don’t be deceived by any prophets claiming you can’t marry someone. Perhaps a successful and happy marriage is not the result of prophecies but of efforts from you and your partner to make it work out.

Can A Prophet Or Pastor Determine One’s Marital Spouse ?

While some men of God are blessed with the gift of vision to see the future, I believe all their visions are “guess work,” so it is impossible for a prophet to determine your marital spouse. Although this depends on your beliefs, a Prophet can warn you of the dangers ahead in marriage and guide you, but they can’t determine who to marry. A marital spouse is based on one’s personal decision and not on prophets.

IN CONCLUSION:

If you receive a prophecy against marrying your spouse, pray to God to lead you in the right path and focus on the strength of your relationship. Do not be discouraged by the prophecies of your pastors, imams, or spiritual fathers. These prophecies are just mere predictions of the future, and not all prophecies will come to pass.