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How to Ruin a Man’s Life: 10 Things to Do 

How to Ruin a Man’s Life: 10 Things to Do 

How to Ruin a Man's Life: 10 Things to Do 

It is possible for a man to use you and dump you, thereby ruining your life. And how do you deal with such men? How do you get revenge for ruining your life? This is where the question of how to ruin a man’s life comes in. Well, if you want to teach a man a bitter lesson that he won’t forget for the rest of his life, here are 10 things to do to achieve your motives. 

1. Use Juju or Charm.

There is a charm called “Kayanmata” that most ladies and married women use on men, maybe to punish them or capture them. If a man ruins your life, using charm on him or casting spells on him can be an extreme way of ruining his life too. You may use the charm on him to make him poor, stagnant, or run mad, depending on your motives.

However, remember that things like this can backfire, and the consequences are irreversible. For example, using charm on a man to make him run mad or to spoil his life. If he later ran mad, your conscience might not be at rest. It is crucial to think very well before taking this action to ruin a man’s life. 

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2. Share His Nude Online. 

Leaking his nudes or sex tape online is another way to teach him a bitter lesson that he will never forget for the rest of his life. If you could get his nudes or sex tape and leak it on the internet for the whole world to see, this would ruin his life because he may get sacked at work or expelled from school, and people would start staying away from him.

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However, it is important to remember that sharing someone’s nude online without their consent is a criminal offense that attracts a jail term if found guilty. So before you adopt this method to ruin his life, you should think about the damage it will cause you too, should they find out that you ruined theirs. 

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3. Create A Scene at their Wedding Ceremony.

If you want to ruin a man’s life, be patient till his wedding day, then show up and create scenes that will steal everybody’s attention. Let the whole world know the pain they brought to your life. Of course, doing this can ruin his life, as people, including his bride, will see him as a bad person. Although this approach can damage your own reputation too.

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4. Give Them Wrong Advice.

There are different ways of punishing someone without their knowledge, and one of these includes giving them advice that will ruin their life. Men often take advice from their women. For example, encouraging him to bet, watch porn, spend his school fees, invest in gaming, etc. 

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5. Cancel Your Planned Wedding.

If your wedding has already been planned, wait until your wedding day, then cancel the wedding and state your reasons. Nothing is more embarrassing than this. In fact, your man will never forget this for the rest of his life. 

6. Bill Him Dry.

Billing a man every time is another way to ruin his life. Suffocate him with billing to the extent that he won’t have time to spend on himself but on you only till he becomes wrecked and poor.

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 7. Bringing His Reputation Down. 

Talking down on someone or badmouthing them can ruin their life. This can be achieved by dragging them online while explaining how toxic they are. For instance, if your man is toxic to you and has been very terrible, going to social media to explain to the public about your encounter with them can damage their reputation. Also, badmouthing them among family and friends is another way of spoiling their lives. By the way, who wants to associate with a toxic man?

However, this approach is bad and not advisable. If you still wish to damage their reputation, make sure you do so with proof, because you might be sued for defamation of character if what you are reporting is false. 

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8. Public Embarrassment.

Embarrassing them publicly is another way of spoiling their life. If you see them in the market, school, work, or on the street, embarrass them so that everyone will be aware of that animal in human flesh. However, doing this can result in violence and fights because not everyone takes embarrassment lightly. Therefore, it is important to know your limits when disgracing a man publicly for your own safety and well-being. 

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9. Set him up.

There are several ways to set a man up which includes sending a stranger woman to snitch on him for his downfall to teach him a lesson that he will never forget. Some ladies make use of this approach when dealing with an ex-partner who brought so much pain upon them. Perhaps if a man can fall into the trap you set up for him, it’s also a way of dealing with them. 

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10. Leave him to God. 

Instead of thinking about how to ruin a man’s life, why not just leave the matter for God to handle? The best revenge you can have on anyone is to leave them to God and make your life better. They must have wronged you and hurt you so much but still, you gain nothing by doing this; in fact, your conscience won’t allow you to sleep peacefully. Pray to God and leave the battle for him. Nemesis will surely catch up with them someday.

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