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You May Not Be Considered a Virgin If You’ve Done These Things

You May Not Be Considered a Virgin If You’ve Done These Things

You May Not Be Considered a Virgin If You’ve Done These Things

Have you ever found yourself wondering, “Am I still a virgin?” Maybe you’ve never had actual penetration, but you’ve engaged in activities that made you question your status. Virginity, though often seen as a straightforward concept, is actually defined differently depending on who you ask — doctors, religious leaders, cultural elders, or even your friends.

In this article, we’ll set the record straight and explain exactly which activities do or don’t change your virgin status — medically, culturally, and morally. Whether you’re just curious or seeking clarity for personal reasons, this piece will give you the answers you’ve been looking for.

Have you been wondering whether you are still a virgin or not? Maybe you have engaged in a series of outercourse or sexual activities but were unsure whether you still qualify as one. This article will help clear your doubts.

Who Is a Virgin?

Generally, virginity refers to a woman who has never had sexual intercourse before.

But there’s more to it. Virginity can be defined in different ways depending on the context — medical and scientific, religious and cultural, or even personal beliefs and life experiences.

Science and Medical Definition

There’s no single, medically proven definition of virginity. However, scientific research suggests that a virgin is a woman whose hymen is still intact. The World Health Organization (WHO) and the United Nations (UN) have described virginity tests as unreliable. Many believe the best way to confirm virginity is through a physical examination of the hymen, but the UN warns this is not a trustworthy method.

Culture and Tradition

In Nigerian culture, a virgin is typically seen as a woman who has never slept with any man. In many traditions, virginity is highly valued, and brides who are believed to be virgins may be given a white garment on their wedding day. This garment is often used as a bedsheet on the wedding night, with the expectation that a virgin will bleed during first intercourse. The bloodstain is then presented as proof of virginity, and the woman is praised for preserving herself.

However, the truth is that not all virgins bleed during first intercourse. Many who don’t bleed face criticism, suspicion, and even shame. 

Religious Belief

In religious contexts, virginity is considered sacred. Both Islam and Christianity emphasize sexual purity. A virgin woman is one who has never had sex, is sexually disciplined, and upholds moral values with a pure heart.

In religion, it’s not just about avoiding penetration. Engaging in acts like oral sex, masturbation, or other forms of sexual behavior may cause one to be seen as a “foolish virgin.” In this view, true virginity means complete sexual purity.

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Signs of Sexual Purity (Religious Context)

If you are sexually pure, you avoid:

  • Foreplay
  • Oral sex
  • Masturbation
  • Outercourse
  • Pornography
  • Anal sex
  • Fondling or sucking of breasts

Reality Check: 

If we set aside religion and tradition, the most widely accepted reality is:

A virgin is a woman who has never had sexual intercourse (penetration) before.

Common Activities and Their Impact on Virginity

1. Masturbation

Masturbation is the manual stimulation of the genitals for sexual pleasure. If you masturbate, you are still technically a virgin because there is no penetration by a partner. However, in religious and moral terms, it is seen as sexual impurity.

Verdict: Masturbation doesn’t take away virginity, but it may be viewed as morally or spiritually impure.

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2. Fingering

Fingering involves inserting fingers (yours or your partner’s) into the vagina. Medically, you remain a virgin unless there is penile penetration.

Verdict: Still a virgin, but many see it as sexual impurity.

3. Bumping

Bumping (rubbing your vagina against a pillow, vibrator, or object to relieve sexual urge) does not remove virginity.

Verdict: Technically still a virgin, though it may be considered morally wrong by some.

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4. Cloth Sex

When a man thrusts against you through clothing without penetration, it’s not intercourse.

Verdict: Still a virgin, but many cultures and religions may disapprove.

5. Anal Sex

This is one of the most debated topics. Medically, if you’ve had anal sex but no vaginal sex, you are still considered a virgin. However, from a moral or practical standpoint, many argue that you’ve had a form of sexual penetration and therefore are not truly a virgin.

Verdict: Medically, as long as the vagina hasn’t been penetrated, you are still considered a virgin. However, ask yourself this — what are you really protecting if you block the “main door” but leave the “back door” wide open?  From a moral and practical point of view, you’ve still had a sexual penetration experience, so many would argue you can’t claim to be a “true” virgin.

6. Oral Sex

If your partner uses their mouth or tongue to stimulate your genitals, it doesn’t remove virginity in the medical sense. However, it is often considered sexual impurity in religion and morality.

Verdict: Oral sex, such as giving a blow job or receiving head, does not take away your virginity medically. Still, in many religious and moral circles, it’s seen as sexual impurity. So while you may still be a virgin by medical definition, you wouldn’t be considered sexually pure.

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Safe Romantic Habits for Virgins

If you want to remain a virgin but still express affection:

  • Kissing
  • Hugging
  • Holding hands
  • Light caressing

These do not remove virginity.

Virginity vs Sexual Purity

  • Virginity: Not having experienced vaginal penetration.
  • Sexual Purity: Avoiding all forms of sexual immorality and maintaining moral and spiritual cleanliness.

You can be a virgin without being sexually pure — for example, if you’ve engaged in sexual acts short of penetration.

Final VERDICT.

Whether or not you are a virgin depends on how you define it. Some define virginity strictly as avoiding penetration, while others include moral and spiritual purity. There’s nothing wrong with being a virgin or not being one — it’s a personal matter, and the choice is yours.

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