Anonymous Stories and Confessions for June 2025 (Part 2)

1. Everybody has their own flaws including you. 

If someone takes responsibility for his actions and is working towards making adjustments, that’s a green flag. You also should work on your own flaws and make adjustments. Normally, in a relationship, we could have different opinions and lifestyle and still be on the same page by showing interest in each other.

MISUNDERSTANDING

It seems this is your concern, there are different ways to handle misunderstanding. For me I use communication and silent approach depending on the context. When you and your partner have a misunderstanding, try to handle it in a polite manner rather than being agresive as that could trigger him to yell at you and say hurtful words. During a misunderstanding, stay calm, allow him to express himself, then communicate your opinion. If you don’t agree with him, stay silent and listen to him till the matter dies down, when you think he has come back to his senses then discus it. You could see he later apologized to you after realizing his wrongs, to avoid those hurtful words, don’t argue with him during a misunderstanding, stay silent and give him a listening ear, you may be provoked too but be calm. When you avoid exchanging words, this could prevent hurtful statements.

You can’t use hot water to calm hot water. You can only use cold water to calm hot water and vice versa, that means to say, one of you must learn to be calm, patient, during a misunderstanding. After the issue dies down then bring the topic and address it together. Also apologize where necessary for peace to reign in order to take the relationship to the next level. A simple “I’m sorry” can prevent yelling. 👇 

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2.  Lol Me still no get your point exactly

She still has intentions of meeting that other guy,  yes or no? If yes, let her go 

3.  If you have blocked him, he won’t keep calling.

Men are not that psycho, if he keeps plastering you it’s because Maybe you left your wall hole open. Close your wall hole and he will stop plastering knowing fully well waiting further is a waste of time. What does Open/close wall hole mean? Asking him to do you financially favor, picking his calls or responding to his texts and messages, sending green light. If you no fit double date, Close your wall by blocking him everywhere, all his numbers should be on blacklist. You know the right thing to do is to block him everywhere.  Your phone has a block button. So do the needful to all his numbers. He will give up when he sees your seriousness. Let your no be no. Text him back and warn him to stop calling or texting you, block all contact. Unless you dey collect him money or gifts,

4. Yes, you  can go 

Yes, you can request for transport fare. Before you go make he Be person wey you know oo or Have your friends know your whereabouts and let him know your friends are aware of your Location at his residence. The way dem take dey kpai people these days, it calls for self awareness so be security conscious. Good luck.

5. No it’s not good because this thing affects your mental health, sexual health and overall being.

Though masturbation has its own benefits like less financial burden, peace of mind and pleasure but the side effects pose more risk. Instead of masturbating? Why not find a partner or hire a hookup girl. some HK girls offer affordable service better than suffering yourself with soapy that will shrink your manhood and worsen sexual performance. Masturbation isn’t good. If you are into it, seek help to get out of it. Masturbation wastes your time, kills your sexual drive, and affects your mental health.

6.  😂 the only good thing there be say you go “cum”

Stay away from porn . If you no get a girlfriend or boyfriend, hire hookup girls to service you and try to keep yourself busy. The side effects outweigh the benefits while is just pleasure

7. Not all virgins bleed and perhaps information are available on the internet for anyone to make research on their own to avoid being ignorant.

Not all educated people are literate just like your boyfriend.Nothing to be confused about, it’s simple as this: “Not all virgins bleed” Simple. A simple Google search or talking to a doctor, sex therapist can give you more insight. Iree oo

8. The signs are always there to tell. You could see it clearly with your own eyes.

If you want proof over signs, I have no idea on how you can get it since she won’t give you willingly. Using force could result in physical abuse. However, you can request it willingly and if she doesn’t, respect her decision or threaten to break up with her and see her reaction. Most importantly, you should ask her why she doesn’t give you access to her phone and listen.

I make use of signs to diagnose relationship problems and those signs have never failed me, never for once. How do doctors diagnose patients? Symptoms right? Same thing with relationships, the signs are always there to tell you something. Any woman who wouldn’t allow you to have access to her phone is hiding something from you. If she suddenly stopped talking to you, becoming busy and no longer responding to your calls, plus not allowing you to touch her phone, we both know what this means. You are no longer a priority.

What can I do?  What else can you do when you claim to have talked about it but to no avail? Have face-to-face conversations with her, check her phone, if she doesn’t allow you, try to drag the phone with her and see if she will become aggressive. If she starts getting aggressive, let her be and send her back to the street where she belongs. When a woman starts showing these signs, another man might be in the corner. Nobody is too busy for who they love, it just depends on how important you are on their priority list. THE SIGNS ARE ALWAYS THERE TO TELL, WE JUST IGNORE BECAUSE OF “LOVE”

9. Don’t use “your” use “my”

Coz I no get a girlfriend wey go claim to love me but won’t give me kpekus  Well, according to your question, yes a woman can love you and still not give you sex depending on her core values, religion, culture and tradition. Also she might be scared of being used and dumped. So if you really want her, you can be patient with her or marry her. Perhaps sex isn’t an evidence of love, it’s just a product of love

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