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THE ANGER OF A DICK DOES NOT TEAR THE PUSSY

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THE ANGER OF A DICK DOES NOT TEAR THE PUSSY

THE ANGER OF A DICK DOES NOT TEAR THE PUSSY


Anger is a strong feeling of displeasure towards someone or something, usually combined with an urge to harm. There is no human that doesn’t get angry but the problem is what happens anytime you get angry?? Anger has caused a lot of problems for many people in fact it has landed few in prisons, many lost their marriage to anger. There are many things that trigger anger which are frustration, cheating, displeasure, injustice etc.

 

Above all there is one thing I want you to know that anger doesn’t solve any problem it only makes things worse, anger pushes you to revenge and at the end you end up being the loser. Are you the type of person that gets angry easily? People have talked to you on several occasions but you haven’t changed well. I have a message for you today. The message I have for you is to let you know That “the Anger of a dick does not tear the pussy”  You may be wondering what PUSSY and dick have to do with anger anyway. Keep reading and you will understand later.

 

There are some aspects that you can’t escape Anger, that is, no matter how perfect or how good you are  you may likely get  provoked by people and these can spike your anger. How?

 

BUSINESS.

Building a Business is not really easy especially in Nigeria where there are frustrations everyday. The moment you start up a Business just be ready to control your nerves because no matter how good you are, people will still frustrate you but how you react when people get on your nerves Is what matters as that is where the beast called anger starts from. I’m not saying you should tolerate nonsense but sometimes you just have to let go of some shits why? Because that customer that insults you today might later patronize you tomorrow. I have learnt that anger doesn’t solve any problem in any business rather it makes things worse.

 

The last time I worked as a sales boy, people did complain about me because I hate insults besides how can you be talking to a graduate anyhow but the moment I realized that the complaint was too much then I had to adjust when my boss tabled my matter. If you don’t know how to control your Anger it will Spoil your business as an entrepreneur. The truth is, we can’t escape anger but how we handle it is what matters.  I’m not saying you should take shits from people but my point is that, don’t always react to your anger because the consequences of anger are nothing to write home about. Anger can lead to fight and fight can lead to death.

 

There is no way people won’t provoke you in your business field and there is now way you won’t get angry but try as much as possible as not to react based on your anger. Some people will take you for a fool but sometimes the best way to fool a fool is to pretend like a fool. So please minimize your anger, don’t insult every customer because people are different. Some people might come to your shop yesterday for a price without buying, another may come to your DM today without buying and that doesn’t mean you should not attend well to your customers tomorrow because of the experience of today.

 

Anger sometimes destroys your dignity and image and these can push people away from choosing your business. I understand that the attitude of customers, especially Nigerians, can sometimes be frustrating but you are the one who needs money so always exercise patience and don’t allow anger to spoil your business.

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SCHOOL AND SOCIETY.

Are you the type of person that your classmates, colleagues and society have  known to be an angry person and hot temper?? It’s better you learn how to minimize this before it leads you to where you don’t want to. There was a lady in my department then in that year I have forgotten what the lecturer did or ask us to do but I remember her hissing when the lecturer asked her to get out of the class I think she was very angry because what she did doesn’t warrant her being sent out of the class so she  hissed while walking away on the lecturer.

 

You wouldn’t believe this lady didn’t graduate with us because  she carried the course despite begging this lecturer and sending many other lecturers to beg on her behalf. She reacted out of anger but she later regretted her actions. The lesson you have to learn here is that anger doesn’t solve any problem, you just have to think before taking action. Someone mistakenly matches you and you have started cursing her father, haha take it easy, you don’t even know who is who.

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RELIGION.

Whether You are Christian, Muslim or belong to other religion, you must try as much as possible to avoid this temptation called anger because it can come in anyway, it is normal for you to get angry but your reaction when you get angry is what really matters. Do you spoil things when you get angry? You really need to get rid of this beast called anger in you. Anger can prevent your prayer from being answered, anger will drain you spiritually and physically there is nothing you gain when you react to anger. Anger will only earn you a bad reputation.

 

In every aspect of our life we must learn how to control our emotions so that we won’t offend God and the people in our surroundings. Perhaps one of the best way to show that truly you are a devoted Christian/Muslim is how you manage your anger. What do you do when you get angry? Do you still insult people’s religion, Do you insult their parents? Do you abuse them physically or emotionally because they got you angry? That’s not fair enough learn how to put your anger on minimal because if you allow your emotion to overpower you then it may lead you to destruction because those words you utter when you angry may not be intentional but trust me it hurts and the person who you say it to may find it difficult to forgive and even if they forgive, will they forget?

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RELATIONSHIP.

A lot of people have lost their beautiful relationship to this beast called anger simply because  they don’t know how to control their emotions. Many have lost their jobs due to anger, a police officer in Lagos State was recently dismissed and sent to jail because he shot dead a man who questioned his action. Why did he shoot dead someone just like that? He blamed it on anger. Anger will always occur in any relationship be it love and affair, family, work but your actions when you get angry is what really matters. Do you turn into a beast when you get angry? If yes, you really need to fix this.

 

Anger is the major cause of domestic violence in relationship and marriage as most people can’t tolerate nonsense so instead of chilling they fire back and this results in divorce or a heartbreak.  I have seen relationships where boyfriend and girlfriend fight like wrestlers and I have also seen marriage where the husband beats the wife and also friendship where the duo fights each other under the influence of anger and do you know why? No one wants to chill for  the other. Two wrongs can never make a right. If you have a partner who is hot-tempered or aggressive, the best way is to keep shut when the beast(anger) appears on him/her till when S/he comes back to his/her senses but if you get provoked and react trust me things may get damaged beyond control.

 

Anger will give you bad reputation because I don’t think any lady in her right sense would settle with a man who always react on his anger and also I still believe no man would be able to manage a woman with hot temper and this reminds me of what happened last week where a redeem pastor died while separating a fight between a couple. This might not have happened if the couple had control over their anger now both of them are in prison for murder regretting their actions.

 

Do you still beat your friend, fight your partner and insult your parents based on your anger? It’s time for you to change.  Charity begins at home if you don’t caution yourself now you don’t know where you can find yourself tomorrow thus there is a need for you to make amends regarding your anger and emotion.

 

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How  Should l Handle or Deal with Angry people??

Do you have an angry person as boyfriend, girlfriend, friend, boss or coworkers? The best way to deal with them is to avoid doing exactly what makes them angry.  Some bosses don’t tolerate laziness, thus it is your responsibility to work hard to avoid insults which might cause anger between you and them.

 

My father usually gets angry if I don’t perform my duties at home, the next thing I will be hearing is insults that I myself won’t be able to bear so to avoid his anger anytime I am at home I made sure that I do all the needful things that needed to be done. So I think the best way to handle people who get angry easily and lose their temper is to do away with anything you know might cause their anger.  This doesn’t mean that you should not express displeasure if they do anything wrong but you must do so politely. According to one of the physics laws that states that “Like charges Repel” you can’t solve anger with anger.

 

If your partner is the ‘anger type’ you have to  maintain calmness whenever S/he is angry to avoid violence. The moment you do this there won’t be a problem. After the scenario, talk to him or her about their anger, that is, if the matter has settled but if s/he refuses to change then I think it’s time to let go of such a relationship. You can’t change someone’s that Doesn’t want to be changed.

 

There are some people who know about their anger but still won’t change no matter how hard you try, I want you to know that you can’t change anyone that doesn’t want to be changed if you have tried your best and yet S/he still always react on his/her anger like when misunderstanding occur, S/he has started cursing your family, abusing you and threatening to beat you I think it’s best you get out of such relationship being it friendship, love relationship or marriage because if you continue to stay saying you will cope Or hoping for him or her to change I believe   one day a angry man can shoot you dead and who lose at last?? You of course.

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In Fact you must always try as much as possible to avoid an angry man, a lot of people have lost their lives to this anger. Spirit of ALUTA doesn’t mean you should turn yourself to something else, when students protest most of them destroy things they act on their anger by destroying things in which at the end they regret. This reminds me of a guy that provoked a policeman, the policeman asked him to unlock his phone he got angry and started dragging with the police along the line the police got angry, he cock his gun and shot the guy based on his anger now the policeman is in prison while the other guy is dead probably in grave by now. 

 

We must try as much as possible not to always react from our anger because the consequences might be difficult for us to bear. Instead we should learn to maintain silence, peace or better still ignore and overlook, yes people may see you as a fool but to you, you are not. You are wiser than them.

 

I’m not saying you should be silent on everything!! Whenever people get on your nerves, protest and let them know that what they did pissed you off but don’t react to your anger. If he curses you don’t curse him back because that might lead to issues. The best thing to do most times is give them space, shun them, don’t reply or if possible block them from your life. Whenever S/he realizes his or her mistake she will come back to you to apologize but if you use violence to solve violence you will never get peace.

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The anger of a dick Does not tear the pussy, you see when the dick get angry(Aroused) you will think it will destroy the pussy but the moment it enters the pussy after some minutes it gets soft to the extent that it won’t be able to rise again the interpretation of this my illustration is that, you see that Dick is like an angry man, when you get angry you feel like destroying things the way the dick feels like destroying the pussy, you feel like to revenge, you feel like to harm other people around you but when you finally revenge and destroy things your eyes will be cleared and temper will now calm regretting your actions.

 

Recall the dick fails to rise again in my illustration? same thing applicable to an angry man, you might fail to rise again how? Because You might lose your job, relationship, friendship, customers and others because of this anger. This is why I pen this down for you to know that anger doesn’t solve any problem, it only makes things worse. This article, The Anger of A Dick Does Not Tear the Pussy also teaches us to learn how to control our emotions not only anger alone but all our emotions.

In conclusion, Nobody is perfect. We are all humans. There is no way we won’t get angry or be pissed off in one way or the other but we must be careful of how we react whenever we get angry. Anytime you are angry always have it in mind that the anger of a dick doesn’t tear the pussy. I have promised myself not to always react to my anger. What about you? I hope you have learnt something today?

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